Is it normal that i haven't had sex yet?

I'm turning 19 soon and I'm still a virgin. I'm moderately attractive and would like to have sex but that requires talking to people and I'm super shy

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88% Normal
Based on 67 votes (59 yes)
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  • dick555

    Some people have sex when they are 13 and others don't have sex until they are 33. You have sex when you are ready.

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  • Avant-Garde

    Neither have I. I'm 20. I'm no longer in a rush to lose it. In fact, I've given up the pursuit of sexual exploits - for a variety of reasons.

    Don't give into the pressure, take your time. Find someone that you truly care for and who in return, feels the same way about you when deciding to lose your virginity. It truly isn't anyone's business as to why you haven't lost it "yet". Unless you plan on losing it to them, you don't really owe anyone an explanation.

    Why not try getting to know someone as a friend first? This way you'll feel comfortable around them if you ever happen to become attracted to them.

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  • Erik963

    In that age I had sex with everything but a women. I fucked pillows, teddy bears, dools, naked pictures on the wall...

    Then I got as much pussy as I wanted, but it ruined me. Dont fuck unless you have to. Stick to your hand, it will not take away your home.

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  • clevelandashkenaziatheist

    This site has had hundreds of questions of the same line. I know plenty of 30+ year olds in the same boat. Society tells you that everyone but you is having sex all the time. This is cruel nonsense. An advertising gimmick.

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  • nicksimmons

    Take it slow . no need to rush nothing. maybe try talking and flirting of the phone with a best friend u really like and then move on from there.

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  • handsignals

    Why don't you just go on one of those fuck buddy websites.

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    • controllingandloveit

      Don't rush meet someone nice

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    • notbrooklyn

      Ooo dang I didn't even know that was a thing!

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      • Arm0se

        NO! Don't listen to him!

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        • thegypsysailor

          Hey, sex just for the sake of sex is a whole lot of fun. It doesn't have to be about true love or marriage or making babies, you know.
          Why are so many on here so hung up over sex? It's just a normal biological function, like breathing or shitting.
          Lighten up!

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          • derpyderp

            Your wife must feel so special.

            "Fucking you is like shitting".

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            • thegypsysailor

              Once again your small minded childish behavior betrays your lack of intelligence.
              How did the authorities miss sending you to one of the concentration camps in PNG or Nauru?

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          • NeofelisNebulosa

            Yeah but for the first time, doing it with a fuck buddy seems like a bad idea. I wouldn't have wanted to lose my virginity to a stranger.

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