Is it normal that i have trouble recognising other people’s emotions?

I have trouble recognising what other people are feeling and responding to things in a emotional manner.

For example, a family friend was in a car accident recently and my family and I were talking to her about it. Afterwards my parents were talking about how sorry they felt for her and how she was almost crying when talking about it. I had thought that she was no longer upset and was recounting it calmly.

I also don’t really like to express my own emotions. I know very clearly what my feelings are and would have no problem articulating them, it’s just that I see no point in doing so and when a friend is going through something emotional I will try to offer ways to fix the problem but never bother giving emotional support.

When I was a child I used to try and copy other people’s reactions so that my parents wouldn’t think I was abnormal.

I’ve not been diagnosed with any autism spectrum disorder, nor do I have the symptoms/signs of any, which is usually what people say if I bring this up.

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Based on 12 votes (6 yes)
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Comments ( 9 )
  • Nikclaire

    There is no need to label yourself with the latest fad disorder.

    Everyone is different and everyone deals with emotions in their own way.

    Unless something negatively affects your life I wouldn't worry too much about it.

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    • Tato

      Definitely. Some people are more logical with life and react differently to certain occasions. I don't see a problem with it.

      As you said, unless there's no negative effects, it's okay.

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    • LloydAsher

      I though I was a sociopath when I was a teenager. I later recognized that I just have a more pragmatic way of life; nothing out of the ordinary.

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  • Killer22

    I can not express myself with people.

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  • Ummitsstillme

    You're probably autistic. It is hard for your kind to understand people's emotions.

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  • Have you been to a psychiatrist? There could be many different reasons for your emotional detachment, such as dissociative disorder or psychopathy. Or maybe you just aren't a very empathetic person.

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  • Yea, you probably a serial killer.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I don't think it's normal to be emotionally constipated.

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  • normal

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