Is it normal that i have to have a variety of constant female attention?

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I have a wonderful girlfriend of 2 years.

But I have to talk 1:1 to many women each day that I find attractive. I need the validation of many women. I have 6 women friends on speed dial that I talk to. They are my friends!

I enjoy talking to maids at hotels, young women at restaurants and baristas because they smile and make me feel good. I try to get women to dance and smile with me at concerts, My girlfriend is with me. and this upsets her!

At parties I become infatuated with a woman, then follow her and try to get her alone just to talk to her 1:1. because hell, it is a party! My girlfriend feels like I am looking for another woman, but I have been true to her: no sex with other women.

Heres the thing: I am 60 years old. Does that make a difference? Is my girlfriend too possesive? Or do I need to tone it down?

I am just a friendly guy 3
I am looking for another girlfriend 3
I have settled for my girlfriend and I am unhappy 9
I need to go to a counselor 14
It's just infatuation Why not? 2
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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    I would say to either tone it down or include your girlfriend in the conversation. How you you feel if she did the same to you with guys? Think about it.

    And don't say, "yes, but...".

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  • JohnnytheSnake
    9 years ago | pl

    i'll be honest it got weird for me when you said you were 60... unless that was the point an u b trollin?

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    • Anonnet
      9 years ago

      Yeah, the 60 thing was quite the plot twist. The whole story took on a more creepy feel, and now I feel... ageist? Is that a word?

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  • palepunk
    9 years ago

    Don't seek emotional affairs with other women.

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  • Riddler
    8 years ago

    You sound like a dick who only cares about having his ego stroked and probably dont give two shits about your GF. See a therapist.

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  • 69
    9 years ago

    i wantd to vote but didnt find "i am an old fart" option

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago

    "At parties I become infatuated with a woman, then follow her and try to get her alone just to talk to her 1:1."

    If you'd really like to get to know someone it's best to just talk in the open if your girlfriend is in the party, too. However, being alone with someone just to talk for a few minutes seems fine.

    Too long would be suspicious and worrying - so time is a major factor. Don't forget to reassure your girlfriend that you only love her. It's always nice to be reassured.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    I think you're just being friendly because I am similar.
    I have lots of female friends, and I don't have sex with them, although I am still friends with girls I have had sex with including ex girlfriends.

    I'm don't hang out with them for sexual reasons either. I just like companionship with friends.

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    • Riddler
      8 years ago

      I really doubt the OP is looking for friends. He noted specifically that it has to be attractive females. Which means he would not tolerate unattractive females or males. Which is obviously an ego stroke he is looking for.

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