Is it normal that i have never been in a romantic relationship with a guy?

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well im not old at all but its starting to worry me (don't know whether im over-reacting or not, please tell me if i am) i know some girls that only ever talk about guys, usually the ones with low IQ but whatever. they have all done stuff with guys and are obsessed with them.no offence but half of them are bitches, boring as hell, not that pretty or REALLY STUPID. i would love to have a boyfriend or just know that a guy liked me. this is me being honest not vain or anything - i don't think im beautiful but i guess im ok looking, i have an interesting personalitlity, im not a nerd but i am generally smart and i hope im nice :L whats the problem? will it just take time or is there something i should do about it ?

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  • kingofthedust
    13 years ago

    I am your male equivalent. I've been told by a few girls that I'm "hot" or "cute", but I'm not sure if I believe them. I'm just way too shy... sucks because I want a girl so bad!!! I can hardly speak around members of the opposite sex and when I do my voice sounds strained and quiet and it's just awkward.

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  • pandabear1209
    12 years ago

    ill assume your shy, sometimes to guys, a shy girl looks stuck up and bitchy. He doesn't realise she's just shy, try talking to guys as just friends, smile, strike up a convo, pretty simple and can go a long ways. Dont lower your standards but don't have standards so high that no human can fit them lol there's someone for everyone, its just a matter of time :)

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  • fearless11
    13 years ago

    Come on girl! That is so normal. I have never been in a relationship with a guy either and I totally prefer to be in a real one with a good smart guy than what those dumb girls have with just ok guys. Keep your standards. You just have to look around and hope for the best. There's always someone out there that will love you :)

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  • xino00
    13 years ago

    it's normal man.

    i love putting "man" at the end of a good sentence:P

    if you are that desperate for a man, you would be talking to one or making eye contact.

    if you are not desperate and waiting for the right "person", things will fall in place and you wouldn't have to work hard at it.

    just don't think about those girls talking about their boys or it will make you jealous and desperate.

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  • Mikael
    13 years ago

    heheh ya relax well if u realli know that girls untends to get hurt in that way already justbe smart and dont get urself in that postion

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  • Elegy
    13 years ago

    U are have whole life dont worry the right person hasnt come yet.relax

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  • redpizzi
    13 years ago

    To bitch about the ones who get it is not the way to go, the ones who get it love it because love and sex is addictive. I am getting close to my mid 30's now and if I had not changed my attitude about the opposite sex I would be the exact same. But I decided to just chat to girls I liked and then things started to happens for me. Aged 16 and never done anything is hard for a bloke. So just chatted and found it is not that hard to do.

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