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I’m a bisexual girl, and I’ve always thought of myself as having a preference for boys in that I have more intense/long lasting crushes on them, but for some reason I commonly find girls visually attractive way more than boys. Is it unfair for me to say I have a preference for boys when I am attracted to girls more often?
it’s normal. you cant control your preferences, opinions, and sexual identity. you’re bi. some bi people like girls a little more, some like men a little more. let’s say you are a bi woman, you 60% like girls and you 40% like guys, that doesn’t make you not bi! liking both in any way makes you bi. so it’s normal for a bi person to feel this way or vice versa. idk if this makes sense because i’m high as shit but i hope you get what i’m saying. also everyone likes their preferred gender for certain reasons. you like women because you think they’re physically more attractive, but you also like men because you see a long-lasting relationship in them. perfectly normal. your sexuality is valid.
I have a preference for boys, but I always find girls more attractive; just like you. I don't think it's weird, in fact; I find it really normal.