Is it normal that i have lesbian desires from watching lesbian porn

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I avoided watching porn for many years, but I started a year ago because I heard how many women loved lesbian porn. I’m married, but masturbating to lesbian porn is what I do daily now because I think about it all the time. I don’t even look at my husband the same as I used to. Instead, I catch myself checking out women in public, like I’m lusting after them.

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    Maybe you're a lesbian or bi in denial.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    6 years ago

    While my husband was at work, I got with a woman that’s been flirting with me. We mainly just kissed, but it was so passionately hot. We’re supposed to get back together soon and I’m thinking about it all the time.

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  • Bailey_Rose
    6 years ago

    Talk to him about your desires. Ask him how he would feel bringing another woman into the bedroom for you to play with. Tell him you are curious. If it turns out it's your thing, find a swingers group or something. If it turns out it's not your cup of tea, no harm no foul. But if you do cross that boundary and you start developing real feelings for another woman, just be aware of the consequences it could have on your marriage.

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    This is why marriage isn't the best idea. I think you should be honest with him and seperate. As a bisexual it seems natural to me but it isn't fair to your husband and you should honor the promises you made.

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  • Whatintarnation
    6 years ago

    Well that sucks for your husband. Porn addiction is a real thing and can destroy your marriage if you let it. Just something to contemplate. Obviously, by how many views and sales each year the porn industry makes, almost everyone watches it. So it would be hard for anyone to criticize you for your behavior. Just saying if you're interested in preserving your marriage might wanna get a handle on it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      He’s good to me and he provides for me. I desire wanting to try being with a woman now and I’m going to try it at some point. Sometimes I think that by watching lesbian porn more often will keep me from doing that but it may be only making me desire doing it more.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      I don’t want to destroy my marriage, but the thoughts are there. I don’t think that I can stop watching lesbian porn.

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      • NormalEntity
        6 years ago

        Talk to him about it. Maybe watch it together. Maybe it's just a sexual urge that you wanna try. See if you can get a trusting friend to have a threesome. Maybe you just need to get that desire out. It's just going to get worse.

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