Is it normal that i have fantasies about a guy friend discovering i'm a woman?

This is a little bit related to another post of mine in which I said that I always dress up and act like a man, but am not a lesbian.

So, usually, I don't let myself have any fantasies (for reasons), but one of them keeps coming back: I think about how great it would be if I had a guy friend who believed I was a guy. I already have many guy friends(actually, my friends are all guys), but they all know I am female; in this situation, the friend would not. By the way, in these fantasies, I never imagine someone in particular, I just kind of make a mix of things I would like in a guy, as a friend or as a love interest, and I "create a person for the fantasy", if you get what I mean.

So in the fantasy, we become best friends and at some point in the friendship, he discovers I'm a girl. This leads to him being confused, freaked out, but eventually liking me. Sometimes, I even imagine that he'd tell me that he's glad I'm female because he was already starting to have feelings for me, and he thought he was going gay, bla bla bla.

As you can see, this is kind of difficult to explain(especially because English is not my native language, please tell me about any mistakes I made, by the way), but you probably get my point.

So, is this normal and, if you were in the guy's situation, how would you feel?

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  • Arm0se

    Mulan.

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  • deshikd

    I don't think it's THAT weird, mainly because it's sort of a cliche plot line honestly. Especially in Korean Dramas. There are so many of them with this exact situation. The guy ends up being confused because he thinks he's gay, but the person he liked is actually a girl. I'm not a guy myself, but the guys in these dramas usually get angry first, then after they calm down they're fine with it.

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  • gloryholeflasher

    Personally I have fantasies going the other way. I fantasize about having a good female friend and as we get closer and more "into" each other and she recognizes that we are falling in love she feels compelled to be honest with me and admits that she's really a guy "dressed up", and I'm intrigued. Whereas she had thought it would cause us to break up and go our separate ways it only makes me love her more!

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  • sandraasiilva

    That's new lol. Not weird, I guess. Maybe it's because you would feel the guy really loves you for who you are that even would go gay for you.

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  • Short4Words

    I don't think such a thing could be hidden but I'd imagine I'd be pretty stoked to find out my good friend has a pussy.

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