Is it normal that i have dreams/get turned on when my coworker is around me?

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So I already have a boyfriend who I love. We have been together for 2 years and we are happy and in love, no doubt about it! But, whenever I am am working with my coworker (who is 6 years older than me) and he tells me how he goes to all these parties and stuff and has a good time, i kind of get turned on. Not only that, but he has a really funny, quirky personality. Is it normal to be completely in love with my boyfriend and have dreams about this person?

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Based on 37 votes (31 yes)
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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    Ain't life grand? You can have your bf and your fantasies about this guy too. Nothing wrong with that. Just don't go acting on your fantasies unless you are willing to hurt your bf and destroy your relationship with him.

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
    10 years ago

    If you are a women it is wrong and you should clean those thoughts(the devil) out of your heart and be saved by Jesus Christ our lord and savior!. If your a man, god gave us millions and billions of sperm for a reason homie...

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    • familyguy63
      10 years ago

      Oh,shut the fuck up!!!!Jesus Christ!!!

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      • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
        10 years ago

        You sir will not be saved during the rapture, I will pray for you.

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        • familyguy63
          10 years ago

          Oh,didn't realize you spoke for god!!! Such intolerance to any other way of thinking,believing. Keep the faith,sir.

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          • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
            10 years ago

            You who would speak the Lords name in vain can still be saved. God is merciful repent and all will be forgiven. May your nights be filled with divine light to guide you through your dark time.

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  • Gbm1
    10 years ago

    Sometimes you can't control your feelings, as much as we wish we could.

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  • driedroses
    10 years ago

    Happens to everyone. But what are you going to do about it?

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    • beachgirl1210
      10 years ago

      What am I going to do about it? Live on and continue being profesional at work

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      • driedroses
        10 years ago

        Sounds normal to me then

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  • dingobaby
    10 years ago

    Just because something is normal does not make it right. Many things are widely experienced, but that does not make them right. I would say that you like your boyfriend, but you don't love him.. Most people get the two confused.

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    • Freedom_
      10 years ago

      That is so not true. It's possible that she only likes her boyfriend, but very few people can live a lifetime with the one person they LOVE with nary a thought of another, especially an attractive person they are exposed to daily. If OP gave into her desires for her co-worker and crossed the line (a very thin line indeed) then I couldn't agree with you more.

      OP, if the thoughts of your co-worker are too invasive and you feel your relationship is at risk(and IF your current relationship is what matters most to you) I suggest finding ways to distance yourself from him.

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