Is it normal that i have a fetish for comfiness?
Hello. I am a straight, 19yo unsocial guy and I have this fetish for wearing clothes that are soft and comfy. I love to collect soft hoodies, soft gloves, sweatpants, and winter boots. Whenever I am bored, anxious, or depressed, I like to snuggle up in these for a long period of time. I especially love the way soft hoodies feel, it’s that secure feeling that feels like I’m being hugged. Being engulfed in pure comfiness makes me so happy. My favorite brand of hoodies is Hollister, I find their hoodies to be the softest. I also like to snuggle up in skiing gear like ski gloves, a ski jacket, and ski boots (I don’t ski and I’m from Florida btw). Furthermore, I like to cuddle with my blanket and rub it on my lips, it’s so soft :). I do sometimes tend to get sexually turned on from wearing these comfy clothes when I’m alone, but not necessarily around people.
I have no clear reason why I have this fetish. Though, I have been physically abused quite a bit when I was a child. It probably caused my depression and anxiety, and snuggling up in comfort just made me feel better.
I am very insecure about my fetish, I have never talked to anybody about this until now. It’s mostly because my older brother makes fun me ever since he discovered my fondness towards gloves and hoodies. I try not to let anybody go into my room to find my collection just to avoid feeling embarrassed.
The strange thing is that this is my only kink. That is, I’m not turned on by the typical things like titties, porn, or nudity (I find them quite disturbing). I just don’t have a sexual desire towards people in general and committing to people. Given my unsocial and boring personality, I’m probably going to be single forever :(
Anyways, I’d like to know your thoughts. Because I’ve never talked about this with anyone, I wonder how you all would think. I’ve looked all over the internet for something like this, but I couldn’t find anything. Sorry if this was too long and may have been be weirded out, but thanks for taking the time to read this :)