Is it normal that i have a fetish for comfiness?

Hello. I am a straight, 19yo unsocial guy and I have this fetish for wearing clothes that are soft and comfy. I love to collect soft hoodies, soft gloves, sweatpants, and winter boots. Whenever I am bored, anxious, or depressed, I like to snuggle up in these for a long period of time. I especially love the way soft hoodies feel, it’s that secure feeling that feels like I’m being hugged. Being engulfed in pure comfiness makes me so happy. My favorite brand of hoodies is Hollister, I find their hoodies to be the softest. I also like to snuggle up in skiing gear like ski gloves, a ski jacket, and ski boots (I don’t ski and I’m from Florida btw). Furthermore, I like to cuddle with my blanket and rub it on my lips, it’s so soft :). I do sometimes tend to get sexually turned on from wearing these comfy clothes when I’m alone, but not necessarily around people.

I have no clear reason why I have this fetish. Though, I have been physically abused quite a bit when I was a child. It probably caused my depression and anxiety, and snuggling up in comfort just made me feel better.

I am very insecure about my fetish, I have never talked to anybody about this until now. It’s mostly because my older brother makes fun me ever since he discovered my fondness towards gloves and hoodies. I try not to let anybody go into my room to find my collection just to avoid feeling embarrassed.

The strange thing is that this is my only kink. That is, I’m not turned on by the typical things like titties, porn, or nudity (I find them quite disturbing). I just don’t have a sexual desire towards people in general and committing to people. Given my unsocial and boring personality, I’m probably going to be single forever :(

Anyways, I’d like to know your thoughts. Because I’ve never talked about this with anyone, I wonder how you all would think. I’ve looked all over the internet for something like this, but I couldn’t find anything. Sorry if this was too long and may have been be weirded out, but thanks for taking the time to read this :)

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  • litelander8

    It doesn’t seem like a fetish honestly. It sounds like no one can see your boner under all the fluff so you feel more comfortable having one.

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    • q2020

      To me, I feel like it’s a fetish. Strangely enough, it’s the one and only thing that naturally makes me horny and masturbate to, literally nothing else arouses me. I don’t know, I’m a bit ignorant on this topic.

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      • litelander8

        Maybe you’re a furry.

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        • q2020

          Nah I’m not that extreme lol

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          • MaxineFinnFoxen

            awww. Wait, what do you mean by extreme?

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            • q2020

              Not extreme as in I’m basic as everything I’ve mentioned :(

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  • Tommythecaty

    You sound like a 20 something woman

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  • MaxineFinnFoxen

    I think that's so cute! Imagine having really thick soft fluffy fur... And a tail to wrap around yourself! Now imagine that x2 when your partner has fur too >w<
    I actually relate with you about not being that aroused by porn or other things. Id rather masturbate to something related to my fetishes than something strictly sex related. You mentioned having anxiety, I have anxiety too, maybe anxiety disorders cause us to be less sexually active besides abnormal arousals? You seem like a fun person.

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    • q2020

      Thanks, you’re too kind! Speaking of fur, I do have this sherpa lined hoodie that I absolutely love to snuggle up in. It feels like a super soft hug :). Unfortunately, I can’t wear it too much now because it’s getting warmer and it’s very thick xD

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      • MaxineFinnFoxen

        Ahh yeah I hate how hot it is. Why can't we be going into an ice age instead of global warming? Then everyone would have to wear fur!

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  • SkullsNRoses

    I agree with litelander8 that this doesn’t really sound like a fetish.

    Also your brother sounds like a knob for harassing you over this, what exactly is wrong with wanting to be comfy? As someone who grew up with 2 “hater” siblings I can tell you that the sooner you learn to tune him out the happier you will be.

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

    You sound like a good catch for duft

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    • q2020

      I’m sorry , I don’t understand

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      • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

        Its a user here that likes certain guys lol

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