Is it normal that i have a big fear of being betrayed when it comes to friends?

Lately, I've been having this big fear of being betrayed mostly because of things that happened to me in the past. I have had friends who have been a complete POS to me saying that they'd never talk bad about anyone and yet they talk extremely badly about me, they used me and started playing me like a game.

They weren't real friends to me at all, that's more the reason why I have my fear of being betrayed again and it hurts me when someone betrays me.

My fear of betrayal, fills in my lonliness and my other fear which is abandonedment which is something I'm also going through.

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  • User907855

    I had the same fear. Still do. For the same reasons. Don't let it get in your way but still let it be a lesson.

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  • SkullsNRoses

    Give it time, with the right people the trust can develop eventually. It will take longer than it used to before you experienced betrayal, just let it happen at its own pace.

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