Is it normal that i hate someone because of something they did in my dream?

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Is it normal that I hate my best friend because of something she did in my dream? The thing is though, is that it seems like something she would do. Lately we never hang out unless I call or text her first, in the past she's ditched me or ignored my calls when we had plans. I feel guilty for even being mad because its ridiculous that I'm mad in the first place, but I just can't seem to get over it. Maybe it's my brains way of saying we shouldn't be friends? I don't know..

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  • charli.m
    11 years ago

    Why don't you try actually dealing with these problems with your friend, rather than getting pissy over a dream?

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  • iezegrim
    11 years ago

    I think you don't like her because she is being a bitch and your subconscious dreaming mind is just reinforcing what you already know.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Over 9000 people have those sorts of dreams.

    My wife thought i bough something on the internets but i didn't it was all in the dream.

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  • disthing
    11 years ago

    I think she climbed into your dream just to piss you off some more.

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  • mysterymen3000
    11 years ago

    Perhaps it's time to use your phone for talking to your friend instead of bitching about her like a 8 year old Disney channel whore

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  • Gid
    11 years ago

    Also, ignore some of these people. It is easy to pick out those who have stopped in their advance towards mental maturity - let yours rise by ignoring the foolish comments. :)

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  • Gid
    11 years ago

    It is normal to think that way - however, it is not right. It is completely irrational to hold someone accountable for something they did not actually do. If your friend is being shady IRL, then talk to her and get answers that way. Communication is important. Don't confuse dreams and reality - if you do, you will end up making mistakes.

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  • MissyLeyneous
    11 years ago

    Dreams sure can fuck with you, huh? On the contrary to most comments on here, you need to find out from her personally if something is wrong. She could possibly have something going on in her life that is giving her problems, and just doesn't feel like she can talk about it.

    Ask her if she's doing alright, if she seems dodgy, don't press the issue, but remind her you're a call away, then leave her be. If she needs you, she'll call you up, just don't wait by the phone.

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  • RacksOnRacks
    11 years ago

    I agree with iezegrim! Your subconscious could possibly be trying to show you through dream state, that that's what your friend is really like, or what she is really capable of doing. Be careful. But most of all, talk to her about it! Not in an aggressive manner, just calmly tell her about what happened in the dream and how it made you feel. If you're really "best friends", I'm sure she'll understand why it made you feel that way, and hopefully she'll reassure you about the whole thing. Good luck :)

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  • TheChocolateWorld
    11 years ago

    She dosen't seem like a very good best friend if she behaves like that! Perhaps it is time to move on...

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