Is it normal that i hate my husband sometimes, even though he's good to me.

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My husband and I have been together for almost 8 years. When we got together he was so understanding of me and put up with all my crap. I married him partly because he would remain so calm when I lost it and that really helped things stay positive. These days though, he's had enough and now if one of us gets upset about something the argument ends up escalating because he no longer remains calm like he used to. Then I end up getting so mad I feel I hate him. This happens quite often these days. Is it normal to feel like you hate your husband sometimes?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Stop being a bitch. After 8 years, I'd get tired of your shit too.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Stop being bitchy

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  • mathwiz6
    13 years ago

    Hmm sounds like ur my parents lol

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  • aaa83
    13 years ago

    It's alright... He stayed calm for 8 yrs... he can't co-op with ur bitchy behaviour anymore... Be quite and shut up... No one would stay 8 yrs like that

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    He might be seeing someone else and comparing her to you.

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  • nanimeow
    13 years ago

    You can't control him but you can control yourself. Maybe work on yourself.

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  • wreckd
    13 years ago

    My husband and I have also been together for 8 years. Sometimes I feel like I hate him when he gets into a rage and throws temper tantrums. I'm an even tempered person most of the time and just tell him he is acting like a child.

    Some of his rage has rubbed off on me through the years. It's hard to make me angry but when I am EXTREMELY mad, I slam doors. That's about as bad as it gets. Lol.

    No offense but maybe you should seek anger management. I think you may have rubbed your rage off on him too.

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