Is it normal that i hate it when people say "he is just a jerk..."

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So last week this girl asked to go on a date with me, and I said no, nicely, because i'm in a relationship. So recently I was sitting on a park bench and I was slapped in the face from behind, and there was the girl; she was calling me a 'bastard' and her friend pulled her off me saying 'he is just a jerk' and another one said 'he is horrible, leave him alone'.
What the fudge?! Is it a crime to not be interested in somebody?

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Based on 37 votes (25 yes)
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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    I can not figure out why the girl would slap you for no reason. I feel like there might be a part of the story that is missing.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      I don't know why she would, either. I don't think that there is anything missing, but maybe i said something without knowing? Thats kinda impossible because I never talk to her.

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  • Unimportant
    12 years ago

    That girl sounds awesome. Can you give me her phone number?

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  • What'sMyName?
    12 years ago

    I accidentally voted no, thinking you were asking if the girls' behavior was normal. That's fucked up.

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  • chicken471bologna
    12 years ago

    Well that girl is just a jerk

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    If you told her nicely, she shouldn't be upset. A guy once told me I freaked him out, yet he was the one trying to pursue a girl with a bf...now he was a douche. But oh well, it's in the past.

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  • dom180
    12 years ago

    Well, if you are in a relationship already, she was dumb to ask. And so long as you let her down gently, I can't see why they'd call you a jerk.

    The girl herself would obviously be a bit upset, so her friends are probably just agreeing to make her feel better. Don't take any offence.

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  • Lynxikat
    11 years ago

    Um... no. Unless you were completely rude to her, there's no reason for her to overreact.

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  • Chillpill
    12 years ago

    Maybe she didn't know that you're in a relationship and telling her would've softened the blow? If you did, then she just completely overreacted. Scary!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      I said "sorry, but I can't I have a girlfriend"
      So I thought I made it pretty clear.

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      • Chillpill
        12 years ago

        Her behaviour was totally out of order. That girl must have some serious issues. Who knows, maybe she's delusional and thought you were into her. Definitely NOT normal!

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  • bones
    12 years ago

    That sounds like she was just really jealous. O_o you're not a jerk.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    That girl is a lunatic, I've never heard of such a thing!!

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