Is it normal that i hate feminists for reminding me i'm a woman?

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I'm not an anti-SJW, I'm okay with still having an anti-gender role/anti-sexism movement in the west. But I feel like the original goal of feminism was to make it so it didn't matter whether people were men or women, and now feminists emphasise gender 1000x more than society in general.

I've struggled with internalised misogyny towards myself and other people, so I have to keep reminding myself that there are women I like/look up to and I like myself even if I'm a woman, so it's not that I don't like women, I don't like some idea of women. If I think of women as people, not "women", I'm okay with being one and not looking down on the others, but feminists make it pretty impossible to do that, as they keep bringing as much attention as possible to "womanhood" and separating society by gender.

Sometimes I feel like dressing masculine/androgynous and saying I'm agender (I don't think I actually am, I don't mind being called "she" etc) just to avoid this crap.

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  • fakeaccount2
    6 years ago

    same here. it's gross and cringey as hell, i already hated to be female and cunts like that just make it even more shameful. actual gender equality would have been nice but the "feminists" had to get greedy and try to put women above everyone, but now we are start to see a male rehash of SJWs who are thinking like "all women are disgusting whores because feminists".

    Like another comment said it's mostly just internet propaganda and sensationalism. personally I have never seen either side have very much affect on real life.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Why did you hate to be female even before?

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      • fakeaccount2
        6 years ago

        Idk, i just don't feel like it fits, but that's really just a societal perception thing so it doesnt make much sense outside of that..but i see myself in my mind as a guy even in fantasies/dreams too, its the only way i can enjoy the idea of most things i'd like to do..and i don't relate to women as much either. which also sucks then because it's very difficult to be friends with men as a female, 90% they will expect some other kind of feelings/personality with it. so i'm prety much a loner. i'd feel weird to actually be trans but i'm trying to become more boyish/androgynous appearance like you too

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    Stop watching tv and the news and you'll solve all these problems. They are shit stirrers. Also if you go to a school that has any of this crap or lgbt nonsense tell them to get lost and just ignore them.

    Live whatever life you want. You already know this isn't a huge issue in western culture. Propaganda is all it is.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Yes, it's normal to be annoyed by third wave feminist hooples.

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    • _Mehhhh_
      6 years ago

      Harpies is my favourite word for them haha

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        I love that word, but I use it for lots different crazy bitches, liberal or conservative, it doesn't make a difference to me.

        How about them gorgons?

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  • _Mehhhh_
    6 years ago

    It's evolved from "let's make gender as irrelevant as possible" to a constant game of identity politics. They make it more than just about gender too, they have to bring race, religion and sexuality into it now.

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  • Fetiza000
    6 years ago

    All feminists are cringe, ill never be a part of that bullshit so called ''movement''. Theyre just complaining because theyre getting paid a little bit less than men and they think thats more serious than anything else in the world. Seriously it just sounds like a fucking 1st world problem. THERE ARE PEOPLE DYING, BEING KILLED AND KIDNAPPED. AND ALL YOU FUCKING FEMINISTS CARE ABOUT IS GETTING PAID MORE, YOU SELFISH CUNTS.

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  • ThrowawayAccount1
    6 years ago

    Yes, it is normal.
    I also hate feminists for making up so many problems that are somehow misogynistic, and I can tell that it’s making us women more miserable.
    I mean, I sure as hell wouldn’t want to be exposed to the idea that I’m sexually objectified, seen as inferior, or seen as a joke on a regular basis.

    The truth is that no one, men or women, is how a feminist describes them. Only a small minority of men objectify women on a daily basis or see them as inferior.
    “Girl hate” doesn’t exist, and women are not “trained to hate each other”. It’s just people trying to seem superior due to having different interests.

    TL;DR: Feminism makes up issues to make people more miserable. Women in first world countries aren’t really seen as objects or inferior anymore.

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  • Aethylfritha
    6 years ago

    I love being girlie, and feeling pretty, oh so pretty. But not necessarily gay.

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    This is similar to how I feel, but I just ignore them.

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  • Dustyair
    6 years ago

    It was started by a woman who said, and I quote: A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bike. Gloria Steinem, a man hater, especially white men. And now look at the mess it has turned into. She must love sucking black cock at her BLM hate rally's too, after they shoot some cops and burn down peoples businesses.

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    • Fetiza000
      6 years ago

      Dint know fish could ride bikes.

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    • dwight211
      6 years ago

      Yum

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