Is it normal that i hate being young?

I am 24 and absolutely hate it. I feel like my 20's are the most bullshit age ever, not really much better than my teens. Most people my age still act exactly the same as they did 10 years ago and still play the same childish bullshit games. It's hard to make friends if you don't meet people through your job. Everyone is too busy playing immature games to just be upfront about things because that's "weird". Reminds me of junior high.

People aren't quite as cruel as they were in their teens, but they're usually still quite cruel. They get jealous easily and everything is a competition.

It's a constant competition of who's the most "grown up". Also reminds me of junior high, just on a slightly different scale. If you don't do what they think is "adult", they think you're not a "real adult". Funny, I didn't know that knowing what you wanted out of life and refusing to cave to peer pressure or not doing something for no better reason than because everyone else is and you don't want to be the last was immature.

I think youth is completely overrated and I'm so sick of being told that my 20's are the best time of my life and to cherish them. I was told that about my teens and that was also a crock of shit. Honestly, the only people who miss being teenagers or 20-somethings, think it was the best time of their lives, and want to go back are the people who never outgrew the childishness of those ages.

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  • Nikclaire

    Sounds like you are giving others a whole lot of space in your head. Just do what you want, live your life and enjoy youth while you can.

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  • @$i

    I'm hoping my after life will be
    better...

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  • GaelicPotato

    Then age.

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    • Lol, unfortunately that takes time... a lot of time.

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  • SkullsNRoses

    I’m 23 and agree with some of your points. It is very hard to make friends once you’re no longer surrounded by classmates, the only friends I’ve made post-school were friends of existing friends and a girl I met, as you said, through work.

    I’m also fed up of everything feeling like a competition, who has the best job, the best relationship, the best car, the best future prospects... I could go on. Some people don’t even try to hide it in humble brags anymore, a girl literally said to me the other day, “My life is going the best out of anyone in this group.” Seriously?

    It’s worth remembering the old but true cliché though, boasting stems from insecurity.

    I’m not sure I understand your point about the things your peers judge you for. Could you elaborate on what you mean by “not a “real adult””?

    All in all I agree with the gist of what you’re saying, most people in their early/mid 20s are still immature and painfully oblivious to it.

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    • They treat me as if I am a child and not as adult as them because I'm not doing the same things they are (getting engaged, married, and/or pregnant). I just don't feel ready and don't even want to date at the moment, and for some reason that bothers them and then they end up treating me like I'm immature for it. Yet, they want to bring babies into the world when they're flat broke and have no way of supporting one, but I'm the immature one.

      It's like they think life is a game and everyone is supposed to do all of this stuff together or else they're "childish". I don't want to do any of those things because everyone else I know is, I want to do them if/when I feel ready, you know?

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  • TheBlindInquisitor

    just wait till your old and you'll wish you were young.

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  • @$i

    I am in my *ucking 20s ...

    No job..no dreams...just living...worth dying...

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    • I hate it, too. :( I'm hoping my 30's will be better.

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