Is it normal that i got disgusted when i found out my boyfriend watched porn?

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So when we 1st started going out one time I saw that he had naked pictures of girls on his computer but I didn't say anything because we had barely started going out. It has been almost 2 years now and one time i saw on google history that he was on red tube nd tube 8, but he was on it multiple times. I felt so fucking discusted and started crying. I felt really weird knowing he probably jacked off to it. He said he didn't though, that he would just watch it just as if it was TV. Porn just discusts the fuck out of me but, it is mainly the fact that he did it behind my back and lied about it..it just really bothered me. He doesn't watch it anymore but once he asked me if we could watch it together. Does he wanna watch it for his own benefit? Or to make the sex better for both of us? And any advice about the whole situation overalll would help. Thanks

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    Guys watch porn. It's just something to accept. I found out my bf watched porn pretty early on just because I asked him lol and asked him what site he used...now I use redtube as well. It's really nothing personal. As for watching it together...I dk. My bf hasn't asked that. Oh! one thing you could do if it bothers you though is just record you 2 having sex so he can get off to that. My bf and I made a few vids before he went to Korea and I know that's not all he watches but hell...better than nothing!

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      but obviously it doesn't bother you because you watch it too. on the other hand, me, I find it disgusting. :|

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      • lc1988
        12 years ago

        Bottom line is guys watch porn and you'd have a hell of a time finding a bf that doesn't. Just accept it.

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    You are overreacting, the majority of guys watch porn and many females too(although they are less willing to admit it, lol). If it upsets you so badly though, then you need to talk with him about it.

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      and I'm not overreacting..if you didn't like watching it and thought it was nasty then you would know how I feel. but since I'm assuming you do watch it then you won't understand.

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      • Shackleford96
        12 years ago

        I stand by what I said. You should talk to him about it.

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  • BoredGuy
    12 years ago

    do you masturbate?

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    Oh, and by the way, it's "disgusting."

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    the things you're asking us should probably be directed at him, dontcha think? ask him why he wants you guys to watch it together. explain to him how badly it turns you off. he may think that watching it together would help you accept it a little more.

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