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Every time i see pictures of beautiful girls/women (around my age group, I'm 21) I get terribly depressed.
It gives me the idea that It's something that i really want, but will never have, is this normal?
It's normal. But it sounds rough. Lots of people make mental associations with things and it brings them down. Try not to though kay? Your great just the way you are
Yeah, that's what those pictures are for: making people feel shit about themselves so they'll buy more shit to make them feel better!
That's normal, because they aren't real. Everyone has flaws, and the women you see in magazines are fabricated with make-up, lighting, and (the big one) photoshop. Even pretty girls you see on the street have flaws, even if they aren't physical flaws.
Sometimes I feel a similar feeling - this unexplainable lovesickness when I see happy beautiful couples, as if I've lost something I never had. I feel this immense gravity, like the universe has me blindfolded and is pulling me somewhere. I don't feel whole or human.
I try to remember that society has conditioned me to feel this way, and I think that my longing for a fairy tale is similar to your longing for impossible beauty. Don't let it get to you. Learn to love yourself.
Awww, there are actually beautiful young women who are real and down to earth. Youl find one as long as your not a jerk :) no worries
Totally normal. Just remember tho that everyones life is very complicated and they also have saddness and jelousy in their life. Looks aren't everything, but I dont think the media knows that. To me, the media is fantasy land - like Kardashians.... please.
I think it is pretty normal, but it's also sad. I am 31 and overweight, but I still appreciate a beautiful woman when I see one. I am a straight female, btw. Beauty comes in all colors, shapes and sizes and not all skinny models are "beautiful." I'm sure you are a beautiful woman, just learn to love yourself more and you will love others more in return. Good luck to you honey.
you still have a LOOOONG time to get one of those. you can still date those 21 year olds when your 45, just sayin. Start learning about women and what turns them on. (Google David Deangelo and absorb everything you can from this man. He's a genius.)
Do something about it ;) Check out Simple Pickup (don't work for them, just a satisfied customer, although their free stuff is awesome too)