Is it normal that i get really sad when my boyfriend leaves or hangs up?

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My boyfriend and I have been together in almost half a year. We are really in love, and when we are together we share the bed and always do something together. But when we are not together, and talk on the phone, and he has to hang up (especially before we go to bed) I get really, really sad and try to get him to talk to me longer. I can start to cry, or get angry or say something so he won't hang up. The same happens when he leaves for some days, then I get really sad and feel like he doesn't love me. This is very frustrating for both of us. But it's hard to ignore. And he feels like he has done something wrong because I feel that way. I don't think he does, but why do I feel that way? :( Is it normal? What should I do?

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  • megadriver
    10 years ago

    Wildy in love... Normal thing. My girlfriend does the same stuff (Even when we live together). I was taking my economics exam and she rang me up several times just to ask me how I was... :D
    I was slightly annoyed, but also enjoying the fact that my girlfriend is desperate about me.

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  • Sog
    10 years ago

    You sound young and inexperienced. This is a relationship that will implode sooner rather than later. I definitely wouldn't call this healthy.

    Perhaps you and your boyfriend are making this work for now, but I don't see how this could possibly be sustainable.

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  • LOUi_CUDi
    10 years ago

    It is normal, you are just madly in love. However, it is amazing after a year, you cannot be apart from him. Usually couples get bored of each other in 4 to 6 months, in my experience and observations . What I don't understand why do you feel he doesn't love you? You didn't really explain .

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    • needlove
      10 years ago

      Thanks for answers. I don't know, I think he maybe doesn't give me the acknowledgments that I need, and that I think i give him.

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