Is it normal that i get offended a little when omegle people disconnect on me?

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Sometimes il be chatting to someone on a random site such as omegle. Every now and then I come across a real awesome person on there or just a nice stranger and we are having a pretty good conversation when they all of a sudden disconnect :O I'm like wtf! they didn't even have the decency to say bye after all that talking, and am offended! Not only do they do that but sometimes Il ask them a question if I'm looking for advice then they just leave before answering it!! Is this normal that I get offended and why do people do that, I mean have u ever done that and why?

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GoraIntoDesiGals

10 years ago

I'm ok if it's because I was looking for a shared fetish and they're male too. In fact they'll often disconnect first. I do feel offended if it's a female and it happens after I tell my ASL. E.g. Hi. Hi. ASL? 23/f. 36/m. -disconnect-

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- bristexai
  
  10 years ago
  
  They may be gay or just want to chat.
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  10 years ago
  
  aw true, yeah well I kinda hate it when people start the convo off with asl, it's silly. It's for chatting to different people not sex talking which is why guys usually ask asl, grrr
  
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  - GoraIntoDesiGals
    
    10 years ago
    
    You misunderstood me. I was actually looking for sex talk but I added several tags reflecting that and was paired with people who included similar tags. I assume it's all fake girls though as girls seem to always shun sex. :-(
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      10 years ago
      
      yes well we girls don't wanna talk about sex we are usually looking for a nice convo with a normal person that's not desperate.
      
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Kutieadb

10 years ago

Yeah, it's normal to feel offended, but there isn't much that you can do about it sadly. I would like to think that most of them wouldn't have wanted to do that and just lost wifi connection on their end. Maybe to avoid this, if you're having a good conversation and would like to continue it, just get their e-mail address, or give yours in the case of something happening to the connection.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  10 years ago
  
  thanks for your comment, I have gotten many emails before :)
  
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- GoraIntoDesiGals
  
  10 years ago
  
  I've got 3 emails in 2 days of barely chatting for half an hour or so and neither of them answered emails after that.
  
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  - Kutieadb
    
    10 years ago
    
    I am sorry -- that isn't cool. I don't think many people go on there to have long conversation though, so I wouldn't take it personally. Maybe something that you would enjoy looking into instead is a pen pal, because that already has a sort of "social contract" of keeping in touch over a period of time.
    
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Kiddles9

10 years ago

Here's the other sides perspective. For me I disconnect without saying goodbye for multiple reasons
1. The guy randomly pulls out his penis
2. The guy asks me to do something I don't want to do (normally sexual.
3. They creep me out
4. Someone walks into the room
5. Lose the connect/ computer freezes/ battery dies in computer.
I always hate when I'm having a really good conversation with someone and because my computer is stupid and just randomly shuts down I lose that conversation. It's so frustrating because it's like finding a needle in a hay stack to find an interesting non pervy person on omegle. Don't always think the worst, that person on the other end may be just as annoyed as you. Or maybe they were just d bags who didn't feel like saying bye.

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braintrip

10 years ago

dude i troll like fuck on that website

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  10 years ago
  
  haha I have done that too xD
  
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  - braintrip
    
    10 years ago
    
    wheeee, oky anonymous user.
    show yourself
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      10 years ago
      
      never BWAHAHHAHAHA :P
      
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      - braintrip
        
        10 years ago
        
        hmmm, fine den, now lets play the guessing game...
        are you somebody i know?
        
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Leeko

10 years ago

i don't think it's that bad to be a little offended, i get that way when that happens a bit too

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  10 years ago
  
  true, thanks for your comment :)
  
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kingofcarrotflowers

10 years ago

I have had to do it many times due to loss of wifi signal,

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  10 years ago
  
  yeah but it will usually say either : your conversational partner has disconnected or signal has been lost due to distance, something rather u know
  
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[Old Memory]

10 years ago

I've never used Omegle but, just going by your description, it seems like it would be difficult not to feel offended.

If it's not an accident, then it means they most likely decided you weren't worth continuing a discussion with. That would suck because you are being rejected and you have no explanation as to why; just your prior conversation to ponder.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  10 years ago
  
  yes agreed, thanks for your comment
  
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