Is it normal that i get insecure when my boyfriend meets his guy friends?

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I keep thinking they'll talk about other girls and for some reason it really bothers me. So I get really pissed with him when he tells me that he has plans with the guys. I know it's not fair to him but I don't know how to control it because it affects me so much. Am I the only one who feels this way? Have other girls ever felt this way about their boyfriends?

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    You're lucky he even puts up with this.

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  • Someweirdmofo
    9 years ago

    Well, even if he does talk about girls, its only human too. A person will never only think one single person is attractive and every other girl is just ugly as fuck. No matter what. Its inhuman not to check out other people. The only thing that really matters is that hes yours.

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  • RainbowDischarge
    9 years ago

    I feel you but I wish I didn't.

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  • (.)(.)boobies
    9 years ago

    It's not uncommon but not normal. It must be terrible feeling like that all of the time? Wouldn't you want to get past it?

    Search online for ideas about how to overcome those feelings. Type "how women can overcome insecurity" on Google and see what comes up. There is so much information out there about dealing with this problem, it would be foolish not to take advantage of it.

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  • disthing
    9 years ago

    It's normal if you're insecure.

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  • buzzybimaybe
    8 years ago

    that is a good way to push your boyfriend right into cheating on you

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Freaking out about your boyfriend hanging with the guys is a good way to chase him away. Next time he says he's going out with the boys just call up some of your friends and have a girls night out.

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  • poon_jabber
    9 years ago

    when he's getting ready to go out, tell him you have a wild hair for butt sex.. that might change his mind and make him stay home instead

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  • dirtybirdy
    9 years ago

    Wow. That's pretty sad.

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