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i recently came out as a lesbian because i discovered i was aroused by women's bodies and not men's, but i've recently had an encounter with a man and got extremely wet so now i'm confused as fuck
Could just be because you were in a sexual situation. People can be aroused during rape, doesn't mean they want it. It's a bodily function like sneezing.
If you want to be with girls, be with girls. Or don't if you don't. It's about what you want, not what you "are."
yes but normally the fact that i'm with a man should cool me off??? i agree with the rape thing tho
Do you have trouble getting aroused when you're with a woman? Do you want to be with a man?
i don't have trouble getting aroused when i'm with a woman, but no woman actually would anyway so that's not really relevant (women have shown sexual excitement to woman on woman porn movies before, cant remember what the name of that study is) I do want to be with a man, i like them but when i see them like on the street even if they're attractive i won't feel anything
It's easy enough to be turned on by whatever and whoever, I could probably have sex with a cereal box but I wouldn't want to date one. I think what's in your heart and who you really want to be with ultimately, matters more.
Generally speaking, lesbians don't want to date or fuck men.
Yes but now that I already came out I don't really know how to feel about it. Moreover I still don't really feel sexual attraction when meeting men, its only when I'm having intercourse with them that I'm aroused. Maybe thats just a body reaction
Unlike men, women can be physically aroused without being psychologically aroused. Getting very wet by itself doesn't mean you're sexually attracted to guys.
I dont know about that. Lesbian are usually "repulsed" by other men, their brains tell them it's a no go, so that makes lubrication much much harder. She's probably bi .
besides, your statement is kind of false. women actually need psychological context to be aroused more than anything, that's why they need foreplay more than men do cause men are visual.
If you're having sex with men and claim to be lesbian,lesbian meaning that you have sex with women. Then you are bi-sexual not lesbian.
then just fuck both and enjoy it . Maybe you can be in a 3 way relationship with a girl and a guy and have the best of both worlds.