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I am a guy and I have a profile up on a dating site....I get tons of winks and request for dates from girls of all ages and races...but in real life...zero...girls dont even seem to notice me...is this normal?
Sometimes girls are also shy, and just have an awkwardness about them even if you're the one talking to them. Try not to give up too easily :) I'm sure that one day you'll come across a girl who you'll be glad you took the time to go talk to.
Now you see, most girls probably expect all guys to be assholes too but you have to overcome your past experience with girls because there are nice ones out there. I never thought I'd find one until I found my boyfriend and we have absolutely everything in common. There's someone out there for everyone, you just have to be confident enough to be open to the idea of it.
First of all..thank you for commenting...I appreciate your feedback...I am open to the possibility....but when I start talking to girls..it seems I see this look on their face like leave me alone and so I do...not always but mostly or maybe I am imagining...I think I can read body language...not sure though....
Well you see, you expect to be turned down so you probably don't bother asking girls out, right? Can I ask how old you are? There's nothing wrong with not having confidence but if you wanna get dates, I suggest you try boosting your confidence somehow. This will get easier the older you get too, because the older you get the less you (and the girls around you) will care about awkwardness and stuff like that.
Im embarrased because I am old enough to know better...but trust me...I am charming, witty , funny and out going...I have great social skillls...intelligent but not stuffy... 6 ft 3 inches...195 lbs...in shape, 6 pack...rugged looks...crystal blue eyes...college educated....real good job nice car, nice clothes....muscular but not too much...a few tattoos....used to be a model ....but no luck with the girls in real life...I do expect most girls to be total a- holes because that has been my experience with them...once in a decade maybe there is actually a nice one that I meet
Maybe because you spend all your time on the internet instead of going out trying to meet real girls? Just a thought. You could actually make more effort in real life than you do on the net. Its not because girls have more courage on dating sites, its the other way around in this case. You have more courage on the internet so you probably chat with confidence, but in real life you probably don't have much confidence when it comes to talking to girls right? Also, girls aren't supposed to ask you out, you're supposed to ask them. So why don't you put the computer off and go out and ask a few girls out? You might actually get a date that way.
Many girls on these sites are prostitutes. If you meet up with them, you pay. Many are women that are "greencard women", desperate women from other countries that want to move to this country and take your money (no love involved). Other girls on these sites are very young and do it for thrills or as a joke. A few are serious and lonley, and probably socially backward. You don't really know if you like them anyway unless you see them in person.
I agree with Parky_Parker, people in general tend to be more open on the net. Maybe you give another image on the web, you chat well etc.. and IRL you are more timid.