Is it normal that i get angry when my family doesn't trust me?

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I am a married woman and have been married for almost 8yrs. I love my husband and know that he is the one.
Now the question I have a male friend that is also my husbands friend but him and I have known each other for 13 or so years. He comes in and out of our lives as life goes on but we always have a great friendship.
Latley I have had other people around me ask questions like Do u like so and so and even some ppl (family) suggest that seeing this friend at my house when my husband is working is a bad thing and they tell me to becareful. Is it normal that I feel so angry about this? I just feel that these people should know who I am and that I am not someone who would mess up my family.
(my husband trusts us both completley so why cant others?)

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago

    Thats all you need your trust from in this. Your husband. Outsiders will always talk. People in general, and even family will sometimes talk. Let it go through one ear and out the other.

    If anything, your family is just concerned not because they don't trust you, but they might not trust your friend. They're probably telling you to be careful in case he's the one who unexpectedly starts putting the moves on you when you least expect it. If it really bothers you, and they continue to talk, just say to them, "Hey listen, I'm a grown adult, I'm not some teenager who doesn't know where my heart is. I love my husband, and if I have gone thirteen years as being just friends with (name of your friend) then what could make you think all of a sudden, right now I would begin to feel something for him?".
    I don't know, something like that. You get my drift.

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