Is it normal that i get a little turned on by the thought of my bf cheating?

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Not that i would ever condone the notion of him having sex with another woman behind my back, but when im thinking about it, i get turned on..I would never have a threesome so thats out of the question, its just that i can get jealous and the fact that im attractive nd the thought of him being attracted to another woman to the point where he just has to fuck her and the amount of pain i would feel from it kinda makes me hot. Am I a masochist?

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Based on 129 votes (53 yes)
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  • Rob119
    12 years ago

    Yea, I think its called cuckold, I feel he same thing sometimes about my girlfriend.

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  • screwthestandard
    10 years ago

    Its normal, I'm the same way with my boyfriend but it would still hurt me if he cheated.

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  • InsaneSatire
    10 years ago

    Being aroused by the idea of being really hurt and upset by him cheating sounds a little unusual but, as long as you weren't trying to encourage him to do it so you could be hurt, i don't think you've got a problem. People have all sorts of fantasies and get aroused by all sorts of things they would never actually do or condone in real life, harmless stuff until it becomes reality.

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  • ccjigsaw
    12 years ago

    I love how I saw a thread about a guy getting turned on by the thought of his wife cheating, and it was normal, but this isn't considered normal. I get turned on my thinking of my bf getting off in anyway, so maybe that's what it stems from? I dunno lol Not voting cause i'm to bias

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