Is it normal that i find my boyfriend's mother and sister annoying and fake?

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Well I love my boyfriend, been with him for over a year now. The only issue is his mother and sister. I feel like his mom only asks me how I am doing so that she can gossip to the rest of the family with how I am doing emotionally since my father kicked me out with no place to go. She also says things directed towards me that I feel is very random to bring up. She makes me feel like I don't know anything about her son. Like hello, we live with each other.....

His sister is the most evil person I know.
She likes to make her life seem more lavish then it really is.
I mean sure she has a nice car and house, but her parent's paid for the car, still pays for insurance and her house is being paid for by two other people, one being her boyfriend who won't even defend her when people call her trashy. She never say's "hi" or even acknowledges that I am around when she comes over to visit her family. She complains about how we are never at the house (My boyfriend and I, but that is only because she never calls or lets us know when she comes over. Everything has to be about her. I mean, I am my boyfriend's first gf, but we are both in our twenties.... and I just wish that she would stop looking at me as if I am someone who will eventually be out of the picture, because I have no intention of going away.

I don't understand why she doesn't like me.
Is it because I am going farther then her in life? because I am in college and she is stuck working three jobs with no way of getting back in?, because she thinks I am stealing her family including her brother away from her? What am I doing wrong?

(Honestly she has issues.
The girl was given money to go to college, but she ended up wasting all of it by skipping classes and being lazy.)

I feel like all my boyfriend family does is gossip and talk about people. is it normal that I find my boyfriend's mother and sister fake?

If you have any advice, please feel free to comment.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    You are annoying and fake.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Don't worry be happy as long as things are good with your fried egg.

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  • Holzman67
    10 years ago

    Mother's are a particularly proud lot and they feel this need to oversee the going on's in their grown up children's lives, and discuss with their friends, who also have children of their own, the status of their kids. That is a mothers basic instinct. You may see that as gossip. If she is being unkind about it, have a word to her. But remember there is a fine line between gossip and gospel. Treat it as water off a ducks back. We have to have thick skins in this world, but if she is being unfair then maybe its time to get it all out on the table. Have you talked to your boyfriend about it?

    Your boyfriends sister has had everything handed to her on a silver platter so you can expect her to be rather prissy and ignorant.

    Ask yourself though, how much are these people really impacting the lives of you and your boyfriend? Sometimes small sacrifices and tolerance has to be exercised in relationships. They are challenging, treat it as a challenge. By keeping your head above it all and focusing on your own self improvement then this may be noticed by these women, especially his mother and they may back off your case a bit. But many women are competitive and envious by nature, so that may have something to do with their behaviour towards you. I can only speculate.

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  • Seustewart
    10 years ago

    I boinked both my friend's mom and sister.

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  • Stairy
    10 years ago

    I don't like boyfriend's sister too,shallow and hypocritical.It annoys me even when seeing her post on social network. Thinking about her makes me mad....Ah help.I do like his mom though...his sister annoys, but at least his mom is one of the best mom I've ever seen...well I pity you.

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  • hitchman
    10 years ago

    shotgun good

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