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Like, I don't know when and how I became like this. But i feel no love, compassion, hate nor lust. i can't even talk much these days. It's like everyone around me is normal and i can't connect with any of the people around me. I feel like i'm on a diff. vibe than every else.
My advice depends on your emotional state. Are you happy or are you sad with your current situation? If you're happy with it, I don't see a reason to do anything. If you're sad with it, go see a professional about this. If you feel neither because you feel nothing, I don't really know what to tell you.
Regardless, it's not normal!
I often find myself unable to talk as well. There just doesn't seem to be a need for it. Talking is communication, communication is used to connect to and work with other people, to meet needs, and I don't want anything from anybody, so why talk? At least, I don't want anything reasonable. A hooker can't love me. Men are useless. I can't handle appreciation or love from normal people. There just aren't many scenarios, other than ordering food or doing my job, that talking really seems useful. As for feeling, I'm pretty much constantly in emotional anguish, so I can't relate to feeling nothing. I wish I could feel absolutely nothing.
I feel the same way sometimes but would not say it's normal. I feel but my feelings seem to be on a different plane from everyone else. I don't quite feel the same love and not quite the same compassion because, a lot of times, everyone around me feels it and I don't. I get delayed reactions a lot, though, and connect to animals' pain deeply, even more than that of humans. When you're at a different wavelength, sometimes it just takes a while to find your own wavelength because you don't have a clear external framework to relate it to.
You came to the right place. Here at IIN, we the kooks, perverts, and creeps are very empathetic.