Is it normal that i feel like i went out with a guy cuz i felt bad for him?

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So i started going out with this guy. He liked me and sent me flowers and notes saying stuff like," I'll love u forever." or," if I don't have u I will die." I thought awww he is soooooooooo sweet ill give it a try, what's the worst that can happen. So I said he's and started to date him. He was very nice and I liked him in the beginning but then came our first date by ourselves. It was sorta coward cuz we had noting to talk about. When we did start talking I realized how much this guy really did like me. So as the conversation went on I started to feel like I went out with him cuz I felt sorry for him. Its getting worse to. My love for him is fading. Also this hot hot guy started to like me so my love for my current boyfriend slipped away more. We are still currently going out but I now definitely feel like I went out with him cuz I felt sorry for him. I want to be with the other hot guy who likes me but i cant bring myself to break up with my current boyfriend now. Is this normal? Do other people feel this way? If so what should i do?

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  • elizabethcollins
    10 years ago

    You dated this guy cause you feel sorry for him now there's this HOT guy in the picture, ever stop and think that maybe he's only asking you out because he feels sorry for you? Karma's a Bitch lady and she gets ya every time!!Maybe it's time to break up with the poor guy who so obviously trusted the wrong woman with his heart, and take a little time before jumping into another relationship. People like you make me sick, yas can't be without a man for a day. Stand on your own 2 feet and then maybe just maybe you will find the right one!! Good-Luck :)

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  • annm2361
    11 years ago

    I spent too many years on someone I felt sorry 4 don't do it make yourself happy cos u don't no what's round the corner or worse still 15 years later and ur old lol

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  • Treez
    12 years ago

    Drop him before e starts making u feel bad for noticeably not loving him and then you might stay with him longer because ou feel bad he noticed ur true feelings.. Just drop him! It's your life and your sanity you need...

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Girl, u just wanted to try it and it didnt work, that's all you need to know. U need to dump him soon because u don't want him getting too attached to u and he's got someone else waiting for him

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  • tay2428
    12 years ago

    U no what dkitty how bout u stop being a fuckin asshole and b nice for once

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  • 343Boy
    12 years ago

    LOL I bet you're going to break-up with him and he's going to kill himself now.

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  • JIMJIM$$$$$$
    12 years ago

    If you're not feeling it then end it! Do what you want to but maybe you shouldn't go to the other guy just because he is hot? I think it's normal..

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    If you're really leaning towards the other guy then break up with your boyfriend or whatever he is before anything happens with the other guy. If you're not feeling it, you're just not and you need to let him know so he can move on. I know it's hard. I've been in pretty much the exact same situation and didn't handle it very well. I just stopped talking to the guy I wasn't interested in anymore. ugh. I apologized and he thought we were finally going to date and then I did it again. =( Learn from me!

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  • kekkiumai
    12 years ago

    ^^dkitty needs to stfu. There's always a bitch out there ramming on ppls' desire. Have you ever stopped and think that it's okie for the OP to be selfish? Their lives should be their lives to be happy in. If you don't feel happy I say move on. If you want to stay and work it out you can do that do. Remember that te choice is always yours at the end. It's okie to be selfish and not always living up to others means.

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  • georgienne
    12 years ago

    Good luck. :)

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  • dkitty
    12 years ago

    How about you don't be a pretentious, shallow bitch.

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  • tay2428
    12 years ago

    Thanks this helps so much!!!

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  • georgienne
    12 years ago

    You tried, and it was an innocent hope, but if you don't feel anything it's better for both of you if you check out early. I'd be careful going straight to the other guy though, as it may send a wrong message to your ex.

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