Is it normal that i feel left out/ sad when a friend gets a bf?

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I have a problem when I hear one of my friends gets a boyfriend because I feel I'm loosing my mate. I know relationships are supposed to be "everything" so what's the point in trying to maintain a friendship when I'm most likely no longer as important anymore in their life. Im a girl and always felt this way- IIN?

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Based on 13 votes (11 yes)
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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Romantic relationships aren't all they're cracked up to be, and you are not defined by your relationship status. Maybe you ought to look for a better class of female friend/s? Women and men who never have time for their buddies after they get in a relationship, and then talk about nothing, but their love lives when you see them are insufferable bores. You CAN do better, my friend!
    :-)

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  • dytrog
    8 years ago

    Me and my brother were best friends. We had traveled all over the country for years. He met a woman and got married. After that she came first. I had lost my best friend. We were still friends but I was second. After I got married my wife was first before familly or friends.
    Maybe having a boyfriend/ girlfriend is just practice for when you do marry?

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