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Okay, so I have really strict Asian parents who are Christian and believe in heteronormativity. Also I am surrounded with homophobia. And it's illegal for the homosexual to fuck here. So I rather not come out?
| Yeah, if that's your most reasonable choice. | 7 | |
| Nope. Go tell people before anything happens. | 1 | |
| You might hurt the people you hook up with. | 1 | |
| Depending on your circumstance(s). | 4 |
i'd save up money doing what ever kind of work you can do, get the hell out and move some where it isn't illegal.
for the time being, people don't have to know. but if you ever want to live free, plus it clearly bothers you enough, you need to get away from the people who have a problem with it.
i hope the best for you.
I think it's the smart decision in terms of self-preservation.
How old are you? Are you ever likely to be in a space where you can come out safely? I ask because being out is awesome and if you should do it if you do feel safe.