Is it normal that i fantasize about this?

(just pointing this out first off, I wouldn't ever actually do anything like this and it bothers me that I actually have such fantasies)

Ok well, once in a while I fantasize about raping girls, and/or doing extremely sadistic things to them like stabbing their um.. parts.. with a knife (I don't even wanna voice some of these thoughts) and stuff like that.

I AM a bit of a sadist and masochist, but obviously some of my fantasies are beyond what is ok to do, and as I said I wouldn't actually do them.

But why do I even think things like that, and why does it get me hard?

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  • KeepsakeDoll

    Fantasies are fantasies. Just don't do it.

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  • I wouldn't say it's normal, no. Aslong as you don't act on these fantasies, everything will be fine...And aslong as you don't speak about them.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    i have those fantasies from time to time and they used to concern me to. i told my doctor and she said as long as i dont act out the fantasies or feel the urges so bad that im in danger of acting out the fantasies it should be okay. (please excuse my terrible grammer. im tupong on my phone and it dorsnt let me capitalize.)

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  • bleach_baby

    Stating the obvious here, but it sounds like you have some anger issues with women. Could be that when you're in a relationship, these fantasies will go away on their own, but I wouldn't rely on it. I'd probably go see a therapist. If that's logistically impossible, call a helpline for the mentally ill/vulnerable (not that I'm saying you're necessarily ill) and have a chat down the phone - you might be able to get some perspective on these fantasies.

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  • gummy_jr

    Go see a psychiatrist

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  • (s)aint

    Rape-plays can be pretty convincing. Just saying.

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  • TrollsAreStupid

    It's not normal, but it's okay as long as you don't act on it or speak about it. I had these fantasies from the age of 8 (and I'm a girl, I was really nice in real life and had never suffered from any kind of trauma), everything was fine until I turned 12 when I realised it wasn't normal. Then I put a stop to it. So basically it's okay, but if you ever get uncomfortable with it like I did then you can stop.

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  • flawdagirl

    Not normal. Maybe you've been watching too many horror movies.

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  • TheChakraMantra

    As disturbing (really REALLY disturbing) as that is, you could always try role-playing with your girlfriend, when and if you have one. Some women would be willing to role-play a rape scene, so long as you have a safe word, and ASK HER PERMISSION.

    Aside from that, you should really see someone, a psychiatrist at least. Having those sorts of sadistic thoughts pretty much proves that you're a psychopath. And it's really a horrible thing how so many women get raped these days, and their rapist blames them by saying something like "well you dressed provocatively" or "she had it coming because she wouldn't pay attention to me". Seriously disgusting creatures, men can be.

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  • Paws

    As my health teacher once said, it's okey to fantazice about illegal and/or weird stuff. You have to find out what you like and what turns you on. I don't think this is exactly what she meant, but I live by that rule to this day.

    Just don't actually do it.

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  • SometimesNaive

    There's no problem with it. I have these fantasies too. You dont seem to like it, so see a therapist or pyschiatrist. Rape play is pretty fun though, as long as you take care of your partner after and make sure he/she is alright. For you, these fantasies might be to make you hard because of the power, sadism and the tabooness. Not because you're crazy.

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  • TheArBuilder

    I think theres a little part of you a psychopath..

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