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I fantasise about being in a relationship with a misogynistic man who hates women. I fantasise about letting him hit me when I anger him and doing the cooking/cleaning for him and showing him that not all women are awful sluts.
You're normal, dominant men are very attractive to a lot of us. However, you're seeing abusive behavior and arrogance as healthy dominance. Healthy dominance, to me, is sexier when it's subtle and witty (and not violent at all), but not forced. Way sexier if it comes out naturally at their own pace.
Button line is, abusive men are dangerous. The hitting wont be hard spankings or slightly aggressive pushes against the bed or wall that will lead to some hardcore action; nope. You'll get black eyes, and bruises. He'll yell at you horribly. He'll be possessive. Ugh, it's not fun, and if you get into one, I hope you're able to get out in peace.
OP isn't retarded. The vast majority of women realize fantasies are fantasies, and that getting the shit beaten out of you is, in reality, terrible.
This is just natural feminine desire of being dominated taken to the extreme, which is fine to fantasize about. Probably even normal, since fantasies are always extremes.
It's weird, cause it's like you're agreeing with me, but trying to argue with me at the same time. Are you bored?
Of course I'm bored, it's why I've made my return to IIN. As to what I've got an issue with:
"However, you're seeing abusive behavior and arrogance as healthy dominance."
I don't think OP ever indicated that what she was fantasizing about was healthy dominance. My guess is that you wanted to do a little preaching and so you had to assign her that opinion in order to do so.
Trust me I love preaching too, but you should restrain yourself to only what OP says, not what you think OP is saying. Do you understand what I mean?
I fantasize about about shooting a man like that at point blank range. 🙂
It doesn't matter if a woman is promiscuous, or a pious nun the type of man you are describing is a massive, steaming pile of shit, and not worthy of me lifting even a single finger.
Knock yourself out and get yourself a misogynistic prick of a boyfriend!! But don’t be surprised when he knocks you out. Or worse.
You asked for it.