Is it normal that i fantasise about being murdered?

I regularly fantasise about being murdered by my boyfriend, especially during sex. I’m turned on by the thought of him slitting my throat or snapping my neck. I also like him to choke me and say degrading things to me. I’ve heard that quite a lot of women fantasise about things like that so is it normal?

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50% Normal
Based on 8 votes (4 yes)
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  • HypnoDom

    Choking/breath play and verbal degradation are quite common kinks.

    Fantasizing about being murdered somewhat less so, but it does exist, mainly as a snuff kink.

    Always be safe. Don't do something that you'll regret, or won't live to regret.

    But as long as you're safe, try some new things! Explore your fantasies. See what you actually do and don't like. Start small. Tell him about something simple that turns you on and you'd like to try him doing to you and see how it goes.

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  • EnglishLad

    I'm pretty kinky but I couldn't live my life in a relationship with a woman who wanted me to kill her.

    I'd quite like to keep being kinky with my girl, but that's just me. If I killed her it would be one fuck and then the police find out and i'd rot in a jail cell.

    It's fucked up that you'd consent to a guy physically slitting your throat.

    However, I do agree with HypnoDom that breath play and asphyxiation can be part of a snuff kink scenario. Stay safe and don't be stupid.

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