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Is it normal that at my 17 I never had a boyfriend, soon to be 18. I fall in love with multiple guys daily, just if I see a guy I think he’s hot. Also very badly want to lose virginity, but I don’t want it to be a mistake. What should I do?
I think you're confusing love with attraction and passion. In my opinion love is a long lasting, mutual respect based thing that you build up together. And that will stay alive long after the initial passion is gone as you're working on it continuously. What you feel is your hormones going riot. You are horny. I would advise you not to worry and stress to much about losing your virginity. I know in today's society it's advertised as it is supposed to be a special, magical event, but usually it's not that. It's like anything else you do. The first time you do it is rememberable, but it's definitely your clumsiest, pathetic first try. You need multiple runs to perfect it and to be more comfortable doing it, then you can play back and enjoy it.
You're falling in lust 10 times a day. You have to know someone to love them. Unless, do you know these 10 different guys a day?
It's not falling in love it's more of physical attraction, in your case, I assume. Um ig lose it with one of those but make sure it's safe. Bad first sex is not much bigger deal than any other bad sex xD. Only huge mistake that can happen is if you don't protect yourself or are extremely sensitive and clingy to that person :3
That’s not really love, you just love their appearance. I mean, I guess that’s normal but I wouldn’t call that exactly love.
I think you have to learn the difference between love and lust. What you are experiencing is lust. Wait until love enters the picture. If you screw any guy you are in "lust" with you'll get a rep for being cheap and easy.
The first thing I think you should do is spend some time identifying your own emotions.
I think what you believe is "falling in love" is actually just attraction.
Twelve year-olds will say they're "in love" with the hottest pop-star or boy-band of the moment. That's based on nothing more than appearance and a fantasy about who the target of their infatuation is as a person. Bluntly, it sounds like you haven't quite moved beyond that phase of emotional maturity.
I think that you can love and not just lust a celebrity because you know things about them besides just their appearance, and you've seen them a lot more than just once or twice in movies or in their bands, etc, so you've had enough time to see more than just their physical appearance, and you know things about them. They obviously can't love you back though since they've never met you and don't know you even exist.