Is it normal that i failed to have sex with my boyfriend because of the pain

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I love my boyfriend so much and so does he. We have tried to have sex for couple of times. But I didn't allow that to happen because I felt so much pain while he was trying to insert his penis. I'm a virgin. I felt pain even while he tried fingering me. I have heard sex gives such a pleasure , however I'm worries that why wasn't able to enjoy sex. Is something seriously wrong with me?

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    Use more lube, try one finger first then two when it stops hurting. Don't move on to penis until two stops hurting and starts giving pleasure instead. Relax, and try not to tense up. Your hymen isn't broken so that will need to happen before you can enjoy it. It's probably better to just get the whole penis in despite the pain and let it heal for a week or two before trying again, but someone who had an intact hymen when they lost their virginity may be able to give you more helpful advice on that matter

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  • Geneva5
    11 years ago

    Have you tried fisting ?

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  • jucedaguy
    11 years ago

    F
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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    Are you relaxed and aroused when he is trying to enter you? Or are you scared it will hurt. You have to be physically and emotionally ready or it's going to hurt more than it has to.

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  • Fabulous
    11 years ago

    Don't fear the biggus dickus

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  • DannyKanes
    11 years ago

    It could be Vaginismus. I'd recommend googling it and seeing if it sounds similar to what you're experiencing.

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