Is it normal that i dont want my two best friends to be friends anymore

79% Normal
5 Comments

So I always do this I get two of my best friends to be friends and they leave me out. But this year was different I go them to friends and they were leaving me out BIG time. And then they became enemies but now they want to be friends again and I don't want them to because I'm scared they will leave me out again. Am I a bad friend for that???

Voting Results
79% Normal
Based on 29 votes (23 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 5 )
  • JenniferLynch
    9 years ago

    This is completely normal, and also something I experienced when I was a teenager. I loved both of my best friends- a childhood bestie and a school friend- with all my heart but they acted so cliquey after I introduced them. Soon they were hanging out without me, and when they fought (even though I was never involved) I had to clean it up- and even if I felt someone was in the right/wrong I couldn't pick a side. Super frustrating but super normal, stay strong!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • flightlesskiwi
    9 years ago

    Seems pretty normal. They don't sound like great friend for leaving you out, though.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Oh dear, first world children's problems.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    -2
    -2
      -
    • sillygirl77
      9 years ago

      Well it seems like a problem to her.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      1
      1
        -
      • thegypsysailor
        9 years ago

        Yep, you are right. How on earth will she survive?

        Comment Hidden ( show )
        -3
        -3