Is it normal that i dont want my soon to be ex wife to find someone else?

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Ok, long story short, we are separated but still married, and I see her every day. We still hug and kiss, but we've both cheated (me worse than her..she's only went on a small date from what i can tell, and Ive slept with numerous women). I know I was wrong and I am why it's "ending", but we're kinda still together. I still have sex with other women, and she doesnt know. However, Im paranoid she is finding someone else. I actually want HER and do not want anyone else, but we cant just be together again (another long story). So...Do I just swallow my fears and let her move on? I dont want to lose her but I hate being alone, so I find "friends" to help me out.

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  • charli.m
    11 years ago

    If you're not going to commit to her, let her go. You're being selfish.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    I wouldn't put it as "swallowing your fears" as much as "swallowing your huge ass mother fuckin pride" Somewhere inside, if you really love her, then you know she can and should do better than you. I hope she finds someone else, because everyone deserves to be happy, and you're just not cutting it. That's kinda what, uhh, happens, yah know? When you cheat.

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