Is it normal that i dont know what to do in a situation like the following?

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We feel like revealing stuff about us so embarassing you cant say to anyone you know. So there it goes; i've always been the cold and distant type. Never showing my true nature and always faking a laugh even on my worst days. Cant get intimate with someone. There is a constant battle between my urges as a male and wanting to be alone. Wasnt happy but i was ok with myself. Then things got pretty bad lately. There is this girl i fell madly and hopelessly in love. She is way out of my league. But we talk a lot even about our deepest secrets and mistakes. It hurts so much i cant bear it, being so close and yet so distant. Rreally dont know what to do. I never thought this could happen to me. i had crushes before, i just let them pass and after some time i was again being the cold and emotionless me. This is different, its too much for me and dont know what to do.
Forgive me for the long post but i needed to let it out.

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  • Unimportant
    8 years ago

    Been there. I see two options here: you can try to get this girl and be rejected by her or you can supress those feelings.

    Good luck, whatever you do.

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  • Nokiot9
    8 years ago

    What? She doesn't love you back? If she's sharing that kind of stuff with you she obviously had affection for you and likes you and trusts you. She may not be comfortable putting it in stone by saying "I love you" or dating officially. Some girls just like some guys get spooked by commitment. If give it some time. Make your intentions known and don't rush things. Don't be all up in her grill. Let her come out of her shell on her own, just be there to catch her when she does.

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    • BloodyV
      8 years ago

      Wow. Best advice ever. This is exactly what i 'm going to do. Thnx

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      • Nokiot9
        8 years ago

        You can back someone you love into a corner without even realizing it. Feelings like that need to come about naturally in their own, not because she feels like 'that's what she's supposed to do'. Just take a chill pill. I'm sure she'll come round eventually.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Just imagine how wonderful life will be when you find the right girl and she reciprocates your affection.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    It's not love, it's infatuation and lust.

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