Is it normal that i don't want anyone to be there for me?

They always leave. They say they won't but they do. They just stop caring. Half of my thoughts contradict the other half and I don't know what I'm doing anymore. There are times when I want to go up to random people and hug them but I can't. I don't think that made any sense.

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  • dirtybirdy

    I'm not here. This isn't happening..

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    • AbnormallyAwesome

      God, I love that song.

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      • dirtybirdy

        Yesss. One of my very faves.

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  • AbnormallyAwesome

    With the exception of very few, yes. Most people will eventually leave you. Everything ends, that's just life. But that doesen't mean you can't enjoy people's company. It makes it all the more precious. Even the people that don't leave you, they change. Even if your wife stays with you until you die, you only had one first kiss. I'm sorry, I know it's a lot easier to say than practice, but: Live in the moment, don't let the past drag you down and don't worry so much about the future. Yes, you're friends will go away one way or the other and so will you. But right now they are there. Right now you can have experiences with them that will make lasting memories.
    I have had many friends that I have lost all contact with. But nobody can take away the time we had, and I looking back on those days fills me with joy.

    You can ask yourself this: If I pointed at a man and told you tomorrow he'll be dead, what would you do?
    Would you just walk away, so his death wouldn't hurt you? Or would you go and try to make his last day really awesome?

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  • agoodlovejoy

    Truly i believe I will find the right lover if I do this

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  • Damarixa

    Maybe its your attitude. My mom always tell me I don't know how to talk to people and that my mouth gets me in trouble. Ive lost many friends.

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    • FORUMidableFuckthemods

      Your mom sounds like a hypocritical bitch(no offense) just like my mom. Maybe if she knew how to talk to people and parented better you would know how to talk to people. My parents are the same, toxic but instead she says"You don't know how to talk to people and that my mouth gets me in trouble." Like who says that, what the hell? Maybe she should help you instead.Call her out.

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  • FORUMidableFuckthemods

    Made sense to me and fuck them.

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