Is it normal that i don't wanna having sex with my bf ?

You do what you want, girl! Stick by your convictions, and be yourself, because no one's got to live your life, but you.

Don't do it. You have great morals and if he really wants to be with you, he will wait for marriage.
To me, it is a sign that he is not willing to wait for you and that means trouble

One of my earlier girlfriends and I used to engage in non-coital sex (sex without intercourse) in order for her not to get pregnant but remember that non-coital sex is every bit as intimate as sexual intercourse so if you suddenly discover, in the heat of passion, that you are stroking his penis while he is caressing your clitoris, you have already entered the arena of sheer intimacy. The trick of non-coital sex is never to allow sperm to get anywhere near the vagina.

Yeah I mean lots of people like to do that and have, I think if this guy really wants you he'll stand by your decision.

i understand, i use to be like that in fact, even as a teenager. i was saving it for marriage. and a little more than 2yrs ago i had sex with a woman i was in a relationship with, but she was all kinds of trouble after that. she started to show her true colors. a succubus with a bf already who was far away but would come back, i knew about him but she made me believe she left him because he cheated.

i won't go in to deeper details, i'd be writing a book if i did.

i'm not mad at her, i understand her. doesn't mean its okay, but still. i wouldn't wish it never happened. i learned much.

anyways, you stand by your side, and don't let him pressure you either. if he tries playing the "i thought you loved me card" and trying to put you through some kind of false guilt trip, just remember who isn't loving you enough to respect your choice. because then he certainly doesn't love you enough to wait.

you're not acting like a whore, and that alone puts you high on the score table. you should try things though. nowadays, it's rare for a girl to stand pure at the altar. And when that holy day comes, you'll want to know what's what

1) You could go on birth-controls and use condoms at the same time.

2) You will probably get ex-dick too seeing as in our modern world people tend to be less focused on "saving" themselves and more focused on living their lives to the fullest and sex is fun and amazing.

3) If you truly do want to "save yourself" don't sleep with him, it's no ones choice but yours but we live in 2014 now, women have the right to their sexuality too and any man who would question her decisions before he came around is no man to pick anyway.

If he keeps it up, drop him like yesterdays lemons. He has got his brains in his man sausage.

Okay .. thank you guys , and yes i will standwith my convictions hehehe

well then, don't do it!