Is it normal that i don't miss my boyfriend when he is temporaryly not with me?

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I have this boyfriend for 1.5 years,he left the city last week and won't be back untill next week. Before he left I thought it would be a hard time for me, I thought I was gonna miss him so much just like I was in the past, but then things just turned opposite site,I don't miss him AT ALL.I take care of his dog for him during the period(Just mention it nothing related :P). Especially few days ago, we were talking upon the phone and I was so upset for some reasons, but he unexpectly then turned kind of impatient because he was in hurry to play LOL -_-. Since then I don't reply every single message he text me,I don't even feel like talking with him on phone everyday. Am I lossing my feeling to him? Am I getting tired of this relation ship? Is it normal? Am I doing this right? P.S:He was somehow so nerdy and alwasy makes me disappointed. Not only this time

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    "alwasy"

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    • Stairy
      10 years ago

      alwasy what?

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        alwasy makes me disappointed

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  • _whydoesthishappen_
    10 years ago

    Yea my girlfriend sometimes is just like "dude gtfo I need to be alone" and then after like a day of little to no communication we are back to normal.

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    • Stairy
      10 years ago

      I think that happen for reasons. She was being mad at you at those "sometimes", just hard to let you know. And you'll never know.

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  • Unimportant
    10 years ago

    Short breaks are good.

    True story.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Too long aaaargh.

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    • Stairy
      10 years ago

      Short: I used to like him so much but don't now. Because he always make me disappoint.

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      • Terence_the_viking
        10 years ago

        I meant i can't be away from wifey that long it's painful.

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        • Stairy
          10 years ago

          How long have you two been together?

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          • Terence_the_viking
            10 years ago

            8 years.

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            • Stairy
              10 years ago

              Very good of you, you've been together for so long but never get tired, I admire that so much

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  • Maya05
    10 years ago

    To not miss someone is normal. Everyone misses people in different ways. Some miss people very quickly while others will take a long period of time without seeing someone to actually miss them. Also, I've found out from my own relationships that every now and then feelings of being 'tired of the relationship' or just lack of interest seem to come up. I tend to look past them and just push forward, hoping that they will pass.

    As for the video games, it would be best to talk to him about it. He shouldn't ignore you for his games but you also shouldn't expect him to ignore them at every moment for you. You two need to compromise. Find a middle ground where you are both equally as happy.

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    • Stairy
      10 years ago

      I did talk to him about the video game thing, you know what did he say? He said :"That's normal" Is it normal at all? Of course normal for those bad guys who could never get a girlfriend. Screw him（╯－＿－）╯╧╧

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      • Maya05
        10 years ago

        He definitely does not sound very mature if that was his response. I'm not sure what kind of advice to give, but if it were me in that situation and it was something that really bothered me then I would tell him that I can't do this anymore if this is how he continues to act.

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