Is it normal that i don't like giving blowjobs to my boyfriend?

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I'm 25 now and he's my first man, I love him very much but I really, really dislike giving him blowjobs. I do it only because he doesn't stop asking for it. I love sex, but I'm just repulsed by this, I don't like the smell and the feeling in my mouth... It's terrible for me. In case that matters, I also hate it when he goes down on me. I told him over and over again that I didn't like it at all, very clearly, but since he continued to insist, I gave up and now I pretend it's good... I'm so frustrated, both angry and feeling somehow guilty. Is it normal that I feel repulsed by oral sex? I love sex generally, I spend whole days in bed with my boyfriend and make love as often as possible, it's just the oral that I hate giving and receiving.

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    Understandable. I don't like giving your boyfriend blowjobs either.

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    • IFeelBad
      8 years ago

      Lol :P

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    Just don't do it anymore.

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  • theseeker
    8 years ago

    As a straight guy putting myself in your shoes, I can't say I blame you. I've always imagined giving a blowjob must be one of the most awful things. Receiving is obviously the complete opposite. Anyhow, he shouldn't want you to do something you're uncomfortable with, especially if it turns you off. He has no right to "insist" on it. Stop doing that!

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    • IFeelBad
      8 years ago

      Thank you for your reply, I wish my boyfriend was so understanding.

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  • mystery7
    8 years ago

    I think it's time you and BF had that talk about sex. No point in living a lie.

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  • Dazed_dreamer
    8 years ago

    your acting skills must be great if he cant see that your pretending

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    • IFeelBad
      8 years ago

      I often wonder if he really doesn't see or he sees very well but simply doesn't care...

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  • green_boogers
    8 years ago

    This whole thing is a mismatch. Your boyfriend needs to 69, and you will never adjust to it. He needs to be gentle and respectful of your needs. He also needs to find a new girlfriend.

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  • Vile
    8 years ago

    "smell and the feeling in my mouth" Geeze, that's nasty. Do what your man asks of you. If I were him fucking you missionary I'd slightly choke you with my left hand, demonstrating who's the dominate one.

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    • Arm0se
      8 years ago

      What does that have to do with anything? >.>

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      • Vile
        8 years ago

        By slightly choking the woman during sex is a mans display of dominance which bits a primitive area in the woman's brain hence her natural inclination to submit. You wont know unless you do it.

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        • RoseIsabella
          8 years ago

          Or my natural inclination to blow your brains out, you douche lord.

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    • handsignals
      8 years ago

      I would have thought face fucking more appropriate?

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      • Vile
        8 years ago

        Face fucking is a dietary technique I developed when dating my ex. I called it "skinny time" when she'd get to my place we'd go to the bathtub and I'd face-fuck the contents of her stomach out. I had her on the Atkins Diet as well... This is completely different then a mans Assertion of Dominance.

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