Is it normal that i don't like abs? and that i want my fiance to gain weight?

Hello. I hate abs! They honestly disgust me. My fiance wants to start working out. And I really don't want him to. He is average and I love his body now. But I want him to gain weight.. Is it normal? And how do I tell him I want him to gain? Also- if your fiancee wanted you to, would you?

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  • Caryopteris

    If you love him you will let him try to do what he wants to do. It's not easy to stick to a gym routine. He may be able to and that's great! Be supportive and see if he sticks with it and if you get used to it or not. If he sticks to it he will have girls flocking around him and he will barely notice if you leave.

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  • lol1055

    i like to overeat and i'm fat and bisexual. they start super skinny and become super fat and so sexy! i just force junk food on them and force them to overeat.just participate in food eating contests and go to buffets all the time, they will gain in know time. if they don't i won't let them fuck me and will break up with them.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Ab fat.

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  • NotTheSheeple

    You might secretly be desiring your guy to be less attractive to other women....

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  • Goomats

    I feel guilty like that too. I find every time I have a boyfriend who wants to get fit/lose weight, I start impulsively sabotaging him because I am repulsed by the planned results. Wow. I don't know what to tell you.

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  • muscle weighs more than fat, so he might be getting abs by gaining weight

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  • kelili

    I don't like abs too. I prefer lean men. But if your fiance wants to work out you should not interfere. If he feels good doing it then you should not discourage him. My boyfriend is real slim but since we are living together has gain some fat (the belly!). I don't like it on other men but his I like.

    By the way did you know that working out make the balls sinks?

    It would have no consequences on your sex life, fortunately.

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  • Justsomejerk

    In some conditions ABS will increase braking distance. You should reduce your braking effort to avoid locking a wheel in the first place. Your fiancé will increase your braking distance and wear and tear on your vehicle as he gains weight.

    I get where you're coming from.

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