Is it normal that i don't know if i want to see this guy again?

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Yesterday I met a guy whom I had been talking to on a dating website. After seeing him in real life I am now certain that he is smart, funny and cute. However, I am not sure if he is mature enough for me. By the way, he is 29 and I am 31, and lives with his parents.

I have been on a few dates now, but have not even remotely liked any of the other guys after meeting them in real life. But just because I like this guy the most out of the bunch, I don't know if it's a valid reason to settle? I think I'm being picky.... Should I give him a chance? I am not after a f*** buddy or whatever, I am not interested in that. I actually want someone to date.

Considering that I am not sure if I can see myself with this guy long term, should I not bother getting involved at all?

I want a guy who is thoughtful, caring, loving and domesticated. But I ghavent been able to see those things as yet...

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Based on 14 votes (7 yes)
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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Your post completely confuses me. You sound like a 19th century woman who has nothing else on her mind other than trapping a "good catch", settling down and raising a litter.
    "a valid reason to settle"???? Settle for what? A friend? Someone "smart, funny and cute" to do things with and spend time with? Horror of horrors; what a terrible thing!
    It would probably be best if you did let this one slide by, because you don't sound like you deserve a nice, smart, funny and cute friend, and he certainly doesn't need you in his life.

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  • Blue_Velvet
    9 years ago

    He's 29 and still lives with his parents? He doesn't seem to have grown up.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      It's very common for Greeks , which is what he is...

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago

    I agree with sailor boy, you'd scare me off.

    But to answer your question, give him a chance he sounds cool.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    If you feel you'd be settling then don't waste your time or his.

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