Is it normal that i don't ever want to be pregnant?

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You know what I love more other than being young, learning languages, and having a future? Not being pregnant. Being pregnant is not fun. Nothing is fun about having morning sickness. Nothing is fun about gaining baby fat. Nothing is fun about having fetus growing inside you for 32 weeks. Nothing is fun about experiencing child labor pain. The more I think about it the more I don't ever want to have sex. I'm kind of envious of boys. They can't get pregnant. It goes against their biological nature and they don't have the parts. It makes me want to donate my eggs. I want kids but not biologic ones. I would hate being pregnant at my age though. Am I abnormal for against society's role of a female in this society? Give birth , become the caregiver who never complains and handle a job at the same time?

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  • umph
    8 years ago

    Every abled woman shall have children.
    Since you are clearly not mentally able, it is acceptable for you to skip this duty.

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    • krakelspoof
      8 years ago

      It is every woman's choice, not obligation. Not every abled woman shall have children, because not wanting children does not mean that you are not mentally capable, but that you do not desire to have them. It is not a duty, people should not be guilted and shamed for not getting pregnant.
      Being forced or expected to have it just because you have a womb is absurd.

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      • umph
        8 years ago

        If everybody thinks like that, the end result is EXTINCTION of the human species.

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        • krakelspoof
          8 years ago

          No, not pressuring women to have children does not mean that no women will have babies.

          There will still be ladies with babies, ladies who have chosen to put their bodies thru the 9 months of pregnancy and put their life on the line during the birth for the sake of their child.

          The only change would be a little less overpopulation on earth and that women can decide what happens to their bodies.

          If you were a woman you would demand to decide what happens to your body too. Try to see it from the other perspective.

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  • charli.m
    8 years ago

    So don't. There are plenty of ways to take precautions, and if you do, there's abortion.

    It's not a science rocket.

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  • krakelspoof
    8 years ago

    You do not have to sterilize yourself to not get pregnant.
    Use a condom or birth controls.
    They exist so that women does not have to get a unwanted pregnancy or go get an abortion or morning after pill.

    Also it is perfectly fine to not be pregnant now, later or ever.
    If that is what you want.
    You can adopt or help with parenting in other ways if that is what you want, as well.

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    Is 1998 the year you were born? If so yes it is completely normal not to want a child at your age. You haven't fully even figured yourself out yet. I use to say the same thing. Then I hit 25 and that baby clock started ticking :) I haven't had one yet but my mindset on all of it changed.. If 1998 is not your birth year and lets say you are a lot older than that then disregard.

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    • Kiana1998
      8 years ago

      Shhh! It's a secret! I want to adopt. I really don't like pain. Plus, months of having a baby developing in you?!? Rather not, we'll see if I change my mind.

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  • rapelover
    8 years ago

    Just get knocked up then kill it? Easy enough solution if you ask me.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    If that's how you feel then make sure you don't get pregnant. I've only been pregnant once and I never had morning sickness and I quite enjoyed it. Not the birth itself which was an emergency caesarian, but the pregnancy itself was quite exciting

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Three ways to get what you want;
    1) A never have sex.
    2) get your tubes tied
    3) do 1 or 2 and adopt.
    Good for all concerned.

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    • Kiana1998
      8 years ago

      I like the way you think already. Number 1 does not sound impossible since I'm asexual. How do I get my tubes tied? Thanks.

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      • thegypsysailor
        8 years ago

        Ask your doctor; snip, snip.

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