Is it normal that i don't cum during sex (male)

So me and my girlfriend have only had sex a few times, and each time has been in secret so we've had to be pretty careful, but I've never been able to cum. It's weird cause I can make her cum really easily but I just cant, and it's really worrying. Is this normal? My theory is that I'm super paranoid of someone catching us so i cant really relax enough to let go, and we've only had sex a few times so we might still be getting used to it.

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  • Chupacabra

    As Mika sings; "RELAX!! Take it ee-eeasy!!"

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  • volozi

    It's pretty normal, especially if you're worried about someone hearing you, or you've only had sex a few times. It happened to me for the first 3 or 4 girls I had sex with. Now it's not a problem because I'm more used to having sex.

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  • sugartits

    your probably gay

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  • RoseIsabella

    Are you using condoms?

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    • OhYeah917

      yeah

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      • RoseIsabella

        Good.

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  • MrSexyJesus

    probably is psychological, maybe if you weren't as anxious or secretive about it, then it would be easier. might even involve changing things up, trying something different.

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