Is it normal that i don't consider my birthfather to be my real father?

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I don't love my birthfather and even though he biologically assisted in bringing me into this world, I don't consider him to be my real father because he's a bad man. I'll never consider him to be my father. IIN?

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Based on 48 votes (38 yes)
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  • bambie
    11 years ago

    Perfectly normal I don't consider mine my father Iv never met him only know a little about him and am not interested in meeting him so I'd say normal

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  • hotmessxx
    11 years ago

    I don't consider my biological father a father either. I don't even call him dad I call him by his first name. So yes I think it's okay not to consider him your father

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  • RoseIsabella
    11 years ago

    Just out of curiosity does he abuse drugs and alcohol?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      He hasn't been in my life for a very long time. Back when my mom was still with him, he was an alcoholic. I don't know about today though but I wouldn't be suprised if he still does abuse alcohol.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    11 years ago

    My mom divorced him when my brother and I were little kids so he hadn't been in my life for many years. I was never mistreated growing up my birthfather was just a lazy, good-for-nothing piece of shit that harmed my mother nearly killing her multiple times, stole her money, and tried harming my twin brother back when we were both babies. My birthfather didn't do anything for me or my brothers. That's why I don't consider my birthfather to be my real father.

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