Is it normal that i do not need anyone in my lifetime, i am above all

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I have always been like this have have no want to change at all so please refrain from suggesting something may be wrong with me or that I may need help. I am a perfectly functioning self sustainable human being who has completed two college diplomas, I am now on my way to pursuing a job so that I can afford a house.

I will layout some "quick" topics in a list of what I am and what I am not so that it can help you out in the comments. Just to be clear I am just posting this for fun and to see some really good stuff and possibly even intelligent arguments/perceptions.

How I feel/What I am/What I think daily
- I do not need anyone in my life, whether this is to live with me, talk to me, help or assist me in anyway
- If I had no family I would be fine (no they haven't done anything to make me think this way)
- I feel I do not need friends even though I do have some, I could drop them any second (harsh, but get over it that is not what you're here for)

What I am not, 100% guaranteed (Do not be worried, I am normal)
- I am not anti-social, I just choose not to engage anybody unless I am engaged in a conversation or it is a part of my job, I have no problem talking or doing something with someone.. Just know once I am done I have forgotten about that person and no longer will store any information about them at all
- I am not a potential threat/murderer
- I am not a criminal
- I am not anti-social or have any type of disabilities mentally or physically
- I have not had any traumatic incidents in my life to cause me to be the way I am, forget anything you were thinking if it was about that
- I am not wishing I was different nor do I hope to change

Thanks for your comments/arguments/hate/love/care/anything else you want to call it. Take care.

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Comments ( 23 )
  • charli.m
    7 years ago

    So you don't want any advice and you see everything as normal...

    So what's the point of this post?

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    • jahyson
      7 years ago

      Just because someone doesn't want any advice nor cares about what you have to offer doesn't mean you can't chime in. Otherwise don't comment to begin with? I don't understand your logic. Next

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    • alou666
      7 years ago

      I am not a violent person, but if I ever met you on the street somewhere, I would probably end up in prison for what I'd do to you. That is how disagreeable I find your personality.

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      • charli.m
        7 years ago

        Ooh you're so tough.

        Coward.

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        • alou666
          7 years ago

          Define "coward." Who are you exactly?

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          • charli.m
            7 years ago

            I'm someone who doesn't feel the need to hide behind multiple accounts on a fucking anonymous website when voicing my opinions of others.

            I'm also someone who is not so pathetic as to wish to cause someone physical harm simply because I don't like their "personality".

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          • SockPuppetArmy
            7 years ago

            Please know that I have always gotten immensely pleasurable negative attention from charli.m. But yesterday, for the first time ever, she IGNORED me! My jaw dropped, and I was so butt hurt that I stormed off into my corner and pouted there for the entire day. What audacity!

            I guess I'll have to find a new punching bag.

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      • jahyson
        7 years ago

        Okay tough guy, irrelevant comment but thanks for trying to extend your simple mind beyond limits you can handle. Next (btw prob no chance of you doing that)

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      • richardgerecameinmyass
        7 years ago

        Damn yo.

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  • richardgerecameinmyass
    7 years ago

    You seem like an asshole. At least you will enjoy being alone....youre a criminal.

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    • jahyson
      7 years ago

      Thanks for the uneducated comment with no basis other than your own simple minded opinion. Next

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      • richardgerecameinmyass
        7 years ago

        Nope. I am right. Youre an ass. I win. I am smarter than you.

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  • Ass_gas
    7 years ago

    You are a confirmed introvert. You are happiest alone. Freedom is your number one concern. You are independent, and would rather use prostitutes than tolerate any emotional baggage.

    You are true to yourself but can fake being a team player. In reality, you couldn't care less about anybody's team. Your demeanor is pleasant. You tell people to get fucked in diplomatic and polite ways.

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    • jahyson
      7 years ago

      Thanks, this comment is probably the best comment I've received yet. You are correct in many ways except the prostitute part, I will explain because normally a humans instinct is to protect their genetic existence, creating this "love" or "care" for others in a attempt to reproduce and further on the species.

      Being that of what I am, I could care less but to engage in sexual activity with a prostitute because that would imply I needed them for something. I love the rest of your comment though and I hope you have a great day thanks.

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      • Ass_gas
        7 years ago

        Interesting that you refrain from using people for money. Either you have some sense of "isolationist ethics", or you can be a bit of germ-o-phobic about human contact. Does it bother you to shake hands with people?

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  • Fenrirr
    7 years ago

    Looks like someone had a rough day at Mcdonalds ;)

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    If you believe every thing is normal why are you asking IIN?

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  • IMissMary
    7 years ago

    so what

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    7 years ago

    i thought that but needed the neighbor to come help bleed my brakes in exchange for beer

    othern that im agreed

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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago

    Loneliness is a self-inflicted disease. Even you aren't immune.

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    • jahyson
      7 years ago

      What makes you think it's a disease? If you yourself even are too low on the intelligence scale and I chose to ignore your existence and disregard you as a human what makes me "lonely"? These comments are so useless and seem to be written by children who haven't fully developed a sense of life yet. Next

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      • riffraffy
        7 years ago

        Your biggest problem begins with 'A', but it isn't autism or asperger's. You're abrasive. Defensive too, though I don't see why you need to be. Reflect on why you made your original post. Are you trying to justify your antisocial behavior patterns? Why the insecurity?

        I call loneliness a disease because the mental and physical effects mimic one. A lowered immune system and chronic inflammation won't kill you outright, but it will weaken and certain shorten your lifespan. You have to believe on some level that we humans are animals, and that sociable behavior has been key to our species's reproduction (if nothing else). It's not a large jump then to believe that we have evolved a need for it on an instinctual level.

        In any case, best of luck on your job search. If you are as averse to relationships as you say then you will certainly need it.

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  • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
    7 years ago

    Yawn. Yup it's normal. You should be alone.

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