Is it normal that i despise kids who have boyfriends/girlfriends?

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I never had a first love or young love experience and I'm an adult and still never had one. And whenever I hear about kids whether they're young or teenagers in love or having cute little innocent first relationships I just feel so much resentment, that why can't I have that experience. Like it's not fair. I can't even stand to watch teen romance films or shows with that in. I just find it disgusting also that minors are allowed to have boyfriends and girlfriends of their own age when they shouldn't have any at all if they're underage no exceptions. I also hate people who had their first kiss or whatever at an early age and I find them less than human at that point. Ok maybe not that far but you know I feel hurt by that and yet they still judge me. Is it normal to feel this much hatred and resentment of others experiencing young love?

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  • Somenormie
    2 years ago

    Someone's a little jelly......

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  • RoseIsabella
    2 years ago

    If you were any greener with envy you'd be a bowl of split pea soup.

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  • thepuppet
    2 years ago

    no, its not normal

    its understandable to feel jealous but its still not normal to feel such a deep hatred for it lol

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      It is when I have been bullied and told to kms multiple times when I said I desire what they are allowed to have

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  • S0UNDS_WEIRD
    2 years ago

    It's normal to want what they have but not to hate them for what they have. They did nothing to you. Your problem is what you lack, not what they have. Hating them is misdirectional.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      It is when I have been bullied and told to kms multiple times when I said I desire what they are allowed to have

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    2 years ago

    I think you know you are projecting onto them. Having a girlfriend or boyfriend as a minor is normal.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      no it's not because they're minors and they're underage

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      • 1WeirdGuy
        2 years ago

        "I just feel so much resentment, that why can't I have that experience." Thats why I think you are projecting. Its completely normal. You start having crushes on girls when you're like 5.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          2 years ago

          I'm a girl so it's boys that I like

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          • Cuntsiclestick
            2 years ago

            Jealousy is a normal feeling. Once the resentment and hatred kicks in, that just fucks with your life and quite frankly, it's just not normal for a grown ass woman to resent kids over that shit.

            If you want a boyfriend, make it happen. Waiting around for prince charming to approach you won't make it happen.

            Go out more, talk to people and see where that goes. Don't like going out to random people? That's what dating sites are for. However, the free sites can be full of cat fishers, so it's best to use the paid sites. On dating sites, you can see what a person is about before meeting them. It's how I met people.

            If you're an unhealthy weight, lose weight. If you're not good at talking to others, learn how. If you have a low paying job, learn how to make money. If you have anger issues, get help for that. Whatever flaws you have that you think are preventing you from finding a date, fix them.( I don't know your flaws, but the things I mentioned can be deal breakers for a lot of people.)

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              2 years ago

              So tbh, I have given up on romance entirely

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              2 years ago

              It's not that simple... I can no longer HAVE the type of person I want.

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