Is it normal that i'd rather go to practice then to be with him

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This is my first relationship. I play volleyball and basketball and they are in season right now so I mean I am really focused in going to practice afterschool everyday and he gets irritated that I choose practice over him.I'm not used to being in a relationship i'm used to doing me and doing sports and being me but now I feel I have to think about one more person and I have to squeeze in time for him.i'm not saying he doesn't make me happy or makes me laugh. but Honestly i'd rather go to practice then to be with him its not that I don't like him I do but I am real passionate for the sport and i'd rather go to practice. I hate the struggle of being in a relationship and being all cute and stupid things like that I am not a big fan of all that stuff its so lame. BUT is it normal that I choose practice over him.i just think it is bad timing is it ?? or is it on me ??

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  • Fall_leaves
    9 years ago

    Focus on you!

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  • Unimportant
    9 years ago

    Good for you. It's normal.

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  • LadyOfDecay♡
    9 years ago

    If you hate the struggle of being in a relationship then why are you in one? You know, there is absolutely nothing wrong with focusing on yourself and your goals and your life, but why start a relationship if you can't devote yourself to it? I think that's abit unfair.

    Nobody forced you to start a relationship with this guy, and its perfectly normal to not want or need anyone else in your life as your significant other, but agreeing to be in a relationship means agreeing to consider that person and their feelings as much as you consider your own, and it doesn't sound like you can do that.

    I would suggets you explain this to him, that you're not ready for a relationship and that you would much rather focus on your life and goals.

    Allow him a chance at finding someone who's willing to devote themselves to him, as I'm sure he'll devote himself to them.

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  • lillygreen03
    9 years ago

    thanks guys for your opinion =]

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    tell him he has to fit in with your life....he can make the choice then

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    He sounds like a very immature and stupid boy. You go on and live your life, play your sports, and there will be another, much better guy in your future. You certainly do not need this cretin in your life.

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