Is it normal that i cuddled a stranger and liked it?

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So somehow earlier this week I ended up sharing a bed with a guy I had never met before that night. I was drunk but still conscious of what I was doing - just over the top friendly. He quickly wrapped his arms around my waist and I didn't stop him. He asked me if it was okay. I said it was. I don't understand why I said so. I have never done anything with a guy and the only kiss I ever had was when I was 14 and drunk for the first time. However, I let him. And I enjoyed it very much. I turned around to face him and we just tangled our legs together and he started kissing my neck and my arms and my face. He didn't kiss me on the lips. This lasted a good hour. Then I turned around and he turned me back to face him. He then went on top of me and continued kissing my neck and then went back on his side and we fell asleep all tangled into each other. I loved this and I felt weird for liking that. So weird that I barely talked to him the next day....

Is it normal?

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78% Normal
Based on 37 votes (29 yes)
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  • disthing
    9 years ago

    Why wouldn't it be normal?

    Alcohol usually lowers inhibitions, and behaviour that might otherwise be socially awkward can be acceptable, enjoyable even.

    You enjoyed the closeness and intimacy of another human, the affection of hugging and kissing, the comfort of falling asleep with someone you're attracted to.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      I don't know. I had never felt this way before and had never been that close to a guy and I don't want to be perceived as easy either... It just felt wrong but also right, you know.

      But you are right, I did enjoy the closeness to another human being. It felt amazing.

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      • shuggy-chan
        9 years ago

        Maybe it was ment to be

        Maybe he will break up heart with the hope of more and he not into it

        Maybe u will never know cause u wont talk to him again

        Either way it life, i say if u are slightly tempted try to pursue it. Even if the worst happens and u get hurt, thats how u learn and grow as a person. Nothing worse then being stagnate and full of what ifs

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago

          You're right. I just don't want to pursue this if I'm not interested and considering I wasn't sober when I talked to him most of the time, I should probably get to know him in another state of mind.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Cool, I turn 20 next year march :D anyway, I don't think its nessicarily abormal to enjoy cuddling, although I would imagine that cuddling with someone you care a lot for would be most enjoyable. There's nothing I like more than to cuddle my boyfriend, but I can't really imagine cuddling a stranger, that would just feel wrong, even if I wasn't in a relationship. I don't think you should feel bad though, but you should be careful. Some guys won't stop at cuddling a drunk girl, some might take advantage of you. Take care of yourself. You get some sick weirdos out there :P

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Fun!

      And yeah I don't know. My friends were saying it's odd 'cause I didn't know him but at the same time I was drunk and enjoyed being close to him. He was really nice about it too, asking me if it was okay. And he didn't try anything beyond cuddling and neck kissing, which was nice of him. I know however that a lot of guys aren't like that and would of taken advantage of the situation, which is kinda scary when you think about it honestly!

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  • pdx
    9 years ago

    try it again sober then youl know if its normal

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    That's exactly what I'm saying, you're lucky he didn't take advantage of you or hurt you even. There are really sick people out there and you need to be careful and not put yourself in such a vulnerable situation next time you get drunk. Try to stay close to all your friends when you're out drinking, never end up alone because bad things happen and they happen quickly.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    How old are you?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      I just turned 20.

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